I took my pops to this Santana cover band concert, and after the second set, this chick who was there with a couple other chicks walked over to me and asked me to dance. I said "I'll pass" but I have a really quiet voice, and the music was pretty loud, so I guess she didn't hear me. But for some reason I stood up and walked to the dance floor. I've never danced before, I mean, even when I listen to good music when I'm alone, I don't move. I don't know what's wrong. I just sit there. It's not that I'm not liking the music, it's just that I don't move. Idk man. It's weird. Anyway, I told her that I didn't dance, and she said that it was okay and to just let the music flow through you. I ended up just like rocking back and forth and staring at the band the whole time. It was the most embarrassing moment of my life. I probably looked like an idiot. Later that night, she tore off a piece of paper from the band's email list and wrote her number on it and gave it to me without saying anything. I really don't want to call her. I wasn't really attracted to her, so I have no intentions of dating her. I just want to forget about that night. It was the worst. She probably told her friends about how stupid I looked too. Is it bad not to call her? Idk, I feel bad, but I don't want to call her... ever.
Dood. Don't call her if you don't want to. Youre not doing her, or yourself a favor by initiating something that's obviously not going to work for you.
call her... that situation didnt suit you and dont base the attraction on just what you saw that night. Theres some women ive seen that i would say no to and then you see them on a friday night and your drooling like a dog. pick something you want to do and hit her up. Dont be anti social she could have a friend of a friend of a friend thats your perfect match
man get your confidence up. This girl cameout over to you and asked you to dance. Then even after the awkward dancing gave you her number. She doesnt think your stupid she likes you. You dont gotta call her but it might help to talk to her and maybe fux for practice cuz u seem kinda shy
Who says you need to date her? Just become friends and go out , even if you don't hook up, who gives a fuck, having female friends is a win
[quote name='"FredTheBlazer"']Who says you need to date her? Just become friends and go out , even if you don't hook up, who gives a fuck, having female friends is a win[/quote] Bingo
What everyone else said, she came to you and initiated it all, clearly she likes you. Hit her up, take her out, might be the coolest person you've ever met
Her friend was prolly like yo ill give you a dollar to go dance with that awkward guy over there. She was ok. Then her friend was like ill give you 2 dollars to give him your number. They probly all giggling about it right now.
You can try to date with her, if you fail... remember, there will be always left hand friend for you.
Shit, just call her. stop being so shy or life is going to walk right past you without you noticing. and you are going to die.....being a virgin.
This was more along the lines of, "should I call her and tell her I'm not interested, or should I not call her at all" and I don't know why you guys think I'm a virgin. Being with chicks isn't new to me.
[quote name='"TheCrunge"']I took my pops to this Santana cover band concert, and after the second set, this chick who was there with a couple other chicks walked over to me and asked me to dance. I said "I'll pass" but I have a really quiet voice, and the music was pretty loud, so I guess she didn't hear me. But for some reason I stood up and walked to the dance floor. I've never danced before, I mean, even when I listen to good music when I'm alone, I don't move. I don't know what's wrong. I just sit there. It's not that I'm not liking the music, it's just that I don't move. Idk man. It's weird. Anyway, I told her that I didn't dance, and she said that it was okay and to just let the music flow through you. I ended up just like rocking back and forth and staring at the band the whole time. It was the most embarrassing moment of my life. I probably looked like an idiot. Later that night, she tore off a piece of paper from the band's email list and wrote her number on it and gave it to me without saying anything. I really don't want to call her. I wasn't really attracted to her, so I have no intentions of dating her. I just want to forget about that night. It was the worst. She probably told her friends about how stupid I looked too. Is it bad not to call her? Idk, I feel bad, but I don't want to call her... ever.[/quote] Dude, I dont mean to offend you but you sound like you have A LOT of insecurities about yourself. Wgaf about what her friends think or even what SHE thinks for that matter. The girl obviously must have liked you if she gave you her number. Call her, bang her, dont call her again if you dont want to. I have stopped giving a damn what people think of me and just do me. I have "two left feet" (as i've been told) but I go and dance anyway, I dont care if peole think im an idiot, im having the time of my life lol you should do the same dude live. Make mistakes. Learn. Die.