A bit of backstory: Me, 2 guys (brothers) and a chick were like best friends all the way through elementary school. Long story short, middle school came around and the chick moved, the brothers stayed, and I moved states. Well, I recently moved back home and got in touch with all of them. We're planning on hanging out and reviving old times. Well, heres the juicy part. The two brothers had a younger sister, about 3 years younger than all of us. I used to talk to her sometimes when I hung out at their house and stuff, but we were like 11 years old so it was just friendly conversation. Well, one brother told her I was back in town, and she got my number from him. We've been chatting for a few days, and yesterday she got drunk and asked me to go over and hang out and swim. Well, we stayed up and chatted and there was definitly some chemistry, and her other chick friend who was equally as plastered told me when (when the younger sister went to the bathroom) that she had been talking about me all day. Well, she tried to kiss me but I told her she was just drunk, and I'm assuming she just forgot about it today. I guess my question is would it be wrong to mess around with this chick, because she's a good friend of mines little sister? Or is she fair game? She's 18 and I'm 21 btw.
It is against the bro code. But you gotta know first if your friends will be cool with it. Talk to her about you both and keep it on the low. If it will ruin the friendship, then try going for her friend.
Do you value your friendship? If the answer is yes, then yes it's wrong. Unless you talk to them about it and it's ok. But, if anything negative happens with this girl don't count on your friend to back you up, family (especially younger sisters) come first before any guy/girl. My brother's friends would never try anything with me, they were smarter then that.
There's no universal rule on this stuff. You just gotta decide if you value the friend or the chick more. If it's the friend, ask him straight up if it's okay, and respect what he says. If it's the chick, I guess I don't have to tell you what to do.
