So this Thanksgiving I spent if with the gf as we switch between holidays. Both her parents met in AA yadayada then split up when she got older. they've both been clean this whole time... but after thanksgiving with her mom I'm thinking otherwise. So her mom her a new boyfriend and we went to his house for thanksgiving. I'm not the most comfortable with people I don't know so I just had my polite face on and ready.. plus he never shuts up so I should of brought ear plugs. regardless. The moment we walk in I see a little one hitter on the table. I'm thinking, right on! the night progressed as usual and we stayed over because of the drive. so I went of stairs while the ladies were out shopping. and I go, "hey man. no bs. saw the piece. you smoke?" now this dudes like 60 let me remind you. he's like yeah man you know up and pull out a bag with a pretty decent amount of Blue dream. so we smoked it chilled for a little. then I went to stairs and catch some zzz's. the woman got home my gf came downstairs and started watching a movie before bed. I had to piss so I went back upstairs and then I saw her mom and bf smoking. and they quickly hid it. now her mom has been clean for like 20 years. I don't consider the green a drug. but I feel like she's the kind of person that might let it open the use of what she used to do. I mean if she sticks to pot I'm all systems go and ill keep my mouth shut and not tell the gf. but at the same time my morals think that she should know. oh well, too much going on in my head. am I just going overboard or what?
She's a grown women OP she knows what she's doing, and her boyfriend won't let her go down that path it seems, your a good person by showing integrity for your mother in law, but some things are better left untouched
yea man, until shes knockin over convenient stores for that $10 rock, rippin a few hitters with he BF isnt anything to make a big deal out of and go tellin everyone! Like i tell my kids. Unless its hurting someone, or someone is at risk of being hurt, dont be a tattle tail!
Dude that's pretty f***ing awesome about the 60 year old man who smokes!! Btw how was the blue dream? A friend had some one time but I missed out! Like taste wise and the kinda high I mean?
haha thanks guys! yeah Im usually one to keep to my own business. and I like to keep is that way haha.
Well, first off it's really not your business. Cannabis is a drug, too - doesn't mean there's anything wrong with using it, though. I did a lot of drugs, including drinking - so much so that I had to quit it all because my health couldn't take it, but I still smoke (albeit not nearly as much as generally just vaping). While all those things I used to do are readily available to me still, it's of no concern because I don't need them; I've moved on... moved forward. So... just stay out of it. You're making assumptions and it's really not your place.
But lilj I doubt weed is gonna lead into her drinking again, I think she's doing it to help keep her from falling back into her previous prob bro
It's great that you care and are showing integrity looking out for her but honestly isnt your place. It's better to not say anything because it could open a whole can of worms that I'm sure her, the boyfriend & (your unknowing girlfriend) wouldn't want to deal with. Like others said, leave it be until/if ever at all it becomes an issue and she resorts to past addictions.