Ive smoked up this guy i am friends with that lives in my apt complex like twice or so so far, and it is really dank weed as well, was not cheap for me. He asked me if I wanted him to give me some money, and being as I just met the guy and didn't wanna come off as a cheapo or something, i told him to not worry about it and just smoke me up if he makes a pickup ever. If he keeps smoking with me and doesn't get his own stuff, should I eventually ask him to throw some in? It's not really because I need money reimbursed, it is just principle. The money means nothing to me, but I just like the feeling of people giving money back to show that they aren't freeloading, i always do this for people to. Whenever I drink or smoke someone else's stuff, i always ask them if they want me to throw in, because I feel it makes a great first impression and that person will know that you have some class and aren't just mooching off of them and taking it for granted (seems like the college mindset has a lot of people thinking that they are owed free alcohol or pot whenever they go out to someone else's place) I hate asking my friends for money, in my case I will usually just hand someone like 10 bucks or so without asking to make it less akward. I also dont even know how much to ask from someone? Like if we smoke a little bowl, like .3 grams or so, and i paid 175 for a half, how much could i even ask for from a friend without sounding greedy?
Just dont smoke them up if they are stingy. I mean, if you have the curtosy (sp?) not to ask them, they should have the same to ask you if you want a few dollars. Just take w/e sounds right if they offer. I mean, you dont gotta do all the math out here lol Just pack it up and blaze a bowl. Take w/e is offered to ya.
yea it's just something I do with friends now. I won't ask people for money for things like that, although I do somewhat hope they have the decency to at least offer. I probably won't take their money, but it shows character in my book. Same with lending money, if I lend someone like less than 20 bucks, i won't ask them for it and just hope they give it back in a timely manner. Usually it is just easier to wait when i have no money, and then i get them to buy me something or whatever to even out the debt again
Yeah I'd make him pitch. Just tell him about it and be friendly about it. If he doesn't understand than he's the douche.
Personally I never ask people, even strangers, to drop on a bowl. It always seems to come back to me, so it's all good.
Around my group of friends it doesn't matter who throws what, how much, or anything like that. We all know we always smoke with each other and people are re-embursed all the time with either weed or money It's the way of the drug, it's welcoming we wan't everyone to have a fun time like we are we aren't worried about who payed or brought what BUT, it's expected YOU DO NOT keep smoking and not contribute Just ask him if he want's to "Throw down" on a blunt or bowl, throw me a couple bucks, match me etc..
so true,,, i allways throw down on a shared joint,,,'' really one thats given to me'' i been dry a while, and this past weekend my man left me a 2 hooters in his b-b-q. grill,, he said i didnt owe him nothing,,,, but i left some $ in there, told him to get his kids a yoo-hoo.. it's courtesy,,, if he aint smokin you back,, or throwin cash in the '' kitty'' then yeah dont smoke him out no more... till he brings a buzz to the table,,, i know you just '' met ''' him,, so time will tell what type of smoker/ fellow he is,,,,, cool>
When someone says with a gloating smiling face, "I've smoke/drank before, but never paid for it!" I make a mental note to never smoke them up. I hate that. THey justify it in their minds by saying they didn't pay for it... it's not only stupid but i kind of take offense to it. They'll smoke, bu tonly for free! Yeah, fuck you.
The only problem I have is that, some of my friends never have money and they really can't afford to throw in a few bucks. But there my good friends so I can't be gay and not let them smoke. Oh and another thing. Lets say you're at a party and you and like 2 other people go into a room and start smoking some bowls. But while smoking, a couple friends join the room and get in on the rotation. Then a few more people join and etc. I personally don't like to smoke with a lot of people because that's less weed for me, but then again I don't want to be an asshole. Any suggestions on what I should do?
hell yeah. get some money off him. fade 5 for joints and 10 for blunts, and if he don't have either then a dollar for bowls. it's a good way to make some extra money.
Now that I'm living at college I'm smoking with so many people.. Smokin people up that I just met and getting smoked up by people I just met... It usually tends to come around and if they don't ever buy weed don't smoke em up .. It's that simple!
i hear you on the word '' dont'' dont be bangin on my door,, just hopin i may spark up a hooter.... that shit gets old real quick,>>>>>>>>>>>>>
i hear ya on this, this kindof shit can bring people to odds with their friends. id say it depend.s: if its a .3 bowl who gives a shit. if its a good amount then dont feel like a dick to ask for a little cash. if the dude doesnt have weed and youve known him for a while drop hints like "im gonna see my dealer, you want me to pick you up a bag?" how generous you are is up to you. personally ive never asked a close friend for $$ for weed b/c they hit me back with their own. as far as random people smoking my shit for free, im not a fucking charity, my green takes greenbacks SON.
