Sick of ignorance

Thanks for being part of the group. I also think kids being molested and raped is horrible.

 

Well, other than Blacko, it appears no one is listening to me, so I\'ll make this my final post as long as no one will respond rationally.

The good pedo, in the case of a girl lover, would put his life before a child. He would look out for her, listen to what she has to say, and just be a good friend to her. I have heard TONS of accounts of kids being great friends with adults. It\'s not an immaturity thing on the adult side, it\'s just a more basic look at the world. He can forget about all the conditional stuff to do with love, politics, money, etc, and just interact on a more basic, meaningful way. I was NOT talking about sex. Those who immediately equate pedophilia with rape and molestation are sadly misguided. I don\'t really believe in consentual sex either. That\'s more...yeah...The definition is \'a sexual attraction to children\'. If this meant that everyone who was sexually attracted to children actually hunted and raped them, the same number of same-age heterosexuals and homosexuals would be out on the rape hunt as well. MOST PEOPLE HAVE RESTRAINT, if it\'s so difficult to believe. Does one go out and steal a Ferrari because he gets a boner every time he sees it?? It\'s called common sense! It\'s called looking out for the kid\'s best interest. Is it really so tough to think that an adult may actually CARE about a child? In the case of the child, it\'s great to have a truly intelligent person around who won\'t tell her to pull his finger, or stupid shameful crap that just induces bad feelings. Doesn\'t that make more sense than shielding her from the world?

A final note. I guarantee all of you that each of you knows at least a few pedos, and you don\'t even know it. It\'s because they don\'t fit the mentally-ill stereotype you expect. They are our teachers, summer camp leaders, pool attendants, etc. You can\'t tell the difference because they are not mentally ill. They are not trying to bone kids like some drunk high school kid tries to bone \'chicks\' at a house party. The good pedo wants nothing more than to make a kid happy.

How would I know all this? Because I just described my exact feelings. It makes no difference in how I interact with my friends or family. All it has done is strengthened my appreciation of children. It has made me a better person.

Have a nice day.

 

I dunno where you got that info, that really narrows it down in a negative way. I looked at dictionary.com
Not being able to maintain an adult relationship is one type of pedo, but certainly not all. Personally, girls my own age (20), and even twice my age turn me right on. I have no problem with adult relationships, so I can speak from experience to falsify your information.

 

Well \'wrong\' doesn\'t cut it when it\'s an uncontrollable feeling. Therapy is used as a complete thought cleansing process, instead of just for the ones who DO hurt children. The feeling isn\'t uncontrollably strong for most, otherwise we would have a lot more crap done against kids\' will. The peds I understand are able to channel the feelings into something positive, like looking out for the kid\'s well-being instead of being selfish. It\'s not an impossible concept to understand...is there some other technical word we could call it? Obviously the word pedophile has been so twisted out of proportion that it assumes any person attracted to children is guilty of rape. Sounds like a pretty efficient system, since most of you have managed to piece together every bit of the stereotype which I used to believe.

All I\'m saying is that not every one is like the other. You paint a picture and ignore what I\'m trying to say. I\'m talking about life experience and you\'re all still intent on throwing the book at me. It\'s a huge culture shock like homos were 100 years ago, or whenever, but it is certainly not all bad. If ped\'s could express their beliefs, wouldn\'t it make more sense than having them hide it in plain sight? It\'s like, everything\'s fine until, uh oh! Uncle George is a pedo! Lock the children away! If everything is fine on an emotional base, why is a technicality such a problem?

I guess you just really have to understand the feeling. It\'s not \'wrong\' or disgusting, it\'s controllable, and it\'s easily turned into something good. Don\'t fight it, it\'s not going away

Still, as for the bad, selfish s**t, string em by the nuts.

 

I feel like I\'m gonna be repeating myself forever.

Not every pedo will eventually snap because of \'deviant\' urges. Like I said before, what causes someone to NOT go out and steal a Ferrari because he loves it so much? COMMON SENSE. It\'s about understanding the consequences and putting priority on that over one\'s own desires. And remember what I said about actually CARING about a child? Seems like a lot more important of a cause than screwing around. Why is it so hard to believe that peds actually have self-control?

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I\'m not asking you to condone it, I\'m asking you to stop throwing everyone in the same blender.

A ped can\'t be changed. A ped is a ped forever, and the only thing therapy can do is change the feeling of love into that of bad feelings.

 

I also love kids as if they were my own. I don\'t have any, but being able to spend time with kids is a great feeling.

Your son probably gets along with the girls really well. I bet they look up to him and respect him, and he does the same for them. Believe it or not, these could be \'symptoms\' of pedophilia......

Getting them into modelling? Pedo-central