hey well basically im 19, a virgin and very shy ive not even done anything with a girl except snogging nd the odd feel ups lol cos i basically being moving around the country every 6 months since i was 12 and its shattered my confidence making friends and obviously girlfriends! and theres a girl, 16, who lives a 3 hour trainride away where i grew up, and weve been txting alot, and she basically told me she wants to have sex with me, i of course would like to lol, but i know she has already slept with a few people, so that makes me extremely nervous! so has any1 got any tips as i am goin down next weekend and i want to do this, i dont wanna leave it any longer as im the laughing stock of the few m8s i have! she does not know im a virgin, but i feel if i tell her it will change things! the only thing i can think of so she doesnt get tooo disspointed is tell her i aint had sex for 3 years and i only done it once so im not very good lol so yeh any tips or advice? many thanks
Yo your def going to want to tell her your a virgin. Your going to suck either way and if you tell her it will be a much better experience in that she knows its your first time. If you dont tell her it will prob just end up being really awkward and youll be alot more nervous and tense. The more open you are about it the more chill you will be when it happens and youll have a much better time. If you ever get uh, lost just ask her what she wants to feel good. Again, most imortantly be open about it. Have her ride you cowgirl style too, its a easier position if you dont really know what your doing and still prob one of my favorites.
Is your virginity important to you? If it isn't then just go to a couple parties, have a few drinks, and act like bitches ain't shit. You'll get your dick wet.
HAHAHAHA I can see that going horribly wrong. "What do you mean girls dont like it when you slap their face with your cock?"
very true and great advice! Drinkin can make you loosin up and ditch the shy part of you. 90% girls like confidence. Get some bro!
Believe me, if this girl is telling you she wants some sex, the hard part is out of the way. Just wrap it up if she is sleeping around, take it slow, build to a gradual crescendo. Rinse repeat. And a sense of humor never hurt
I agree. Also if you tell the girl that you're a virgin she probably won't care, although I think that your "well I did it once three years ago" story would probably work if you'd rather not be so honest. Definitely use a condom no matter what, bring 2 or 3 just in case, and make sure you know how to put one on before you meet up with her (it's not difficult, but if you get nervous and don't do it right it'll probably be a dead giveaway that you don't know what you're doing).
Don't worry, I was a virgin until I was 19. If you don't feel comfortable with sex yet, don't rush things. But when it feels right, it's pretty amazing.
well i told her the 3 years thing nd she believed it, i also said i was drunk so i dont remember much, then se said she will teach me everthing lmao, so im meetin her this weekend! & LaTheDarkMan im guessing u were the school bully, or more like the bullee, cos basically ur a huge jerk
I had a feeling thats what her reaction would be lol. I haven't been a member of GC for very long but it seems as though LaTheDarkMan has a good sense of humor as long as you're not the person he's making fun of, which is pretty normal I suppose.
yeh she was pretty cool about it, only told her cos she asked wat my fave thing is bout sex, nd i basically freaked out lol, dunno y as we had been txting dirty things all day lol nd i wasnt been mean particualy its just u never know who's a jerk wen u 1st join a forum lol
Oh I'm the best school bully there is, someone wantz to be put down while in the hallwayz, they call me You are damn straight, I am just out there to make everyone feel bad
^and cum hard...and repeatedly...body shivering, siezure-like, animalistic screaming, fingers running through my hair, heels digging into the back of my neck orgasms she likes it when I use my dick too