Yeah, that might feel special for a few years. But then 20 years down the line, the whole "special" thing starts to wear off and it becomes "I really wish I could smoke weed and relax once in a while but my bitch wife won't let me". It's a breeding ground for resentment. You're only seeing the short term, man.
I say make a change. Mary isn't the problem, your girlfriend is. Why quit something for someone else? If she doesn't like it, she can go chomp a chode. Or, be stealth and say you quit. It's pretty fun, I did this for quite a while.
[quote name='"junkiedays"'] Yeah, that might feel special for a few years. But then 20 years down the line, the whole "special" thing starts to wear off and it becomes "I really wish I could smoke weed and relax once in a while but my bitch wife won't let me". It's a breeding ground for resentment. You're only seeing the short term, man. [/quote] So fucking true