Ok blades I am asking for your opinion on a particular matter. A week ago I met a girl on the dating site OkCupid.com. I made a profile one day when I was really high with the intention of meeting cougars (sexy older women). Once returned to sobriety I realized that older women on dating sites really only want long term relationships. I decided to use the site every now and then when I was bored just to chat and work on my flirting skills without any intentions of really trying to meet someone, I am a college student and meeting girls is not really a problem in my life right now. Anyways according to the site This girl and I were a 90 percent match and 0 percent enemy. I looked at her picture and I thought she was really hot and decided to send her a message. The last several girls I sent messages to did not respond to me, so I googled "How to start a conversation with a girl on an online dating site". I copied and pasted one of the openers that was said to work and sure enough it did. This was very uprising to me so we started to chat and I was just flirting and what not, it was fun talking about random stuff, usually once the conversation is over with a girl I don't really ever talk to them again. Yet we actually seemed to have a lot of things in common, not jut hobbies but we have experienced similar things in life. Anyways she told me she was going to delete her Okcupid account and told me to add her on facebook. I added her and she chatted with me on facebook. Anyways we chatted more on facebook and she sent me a link to her tumblr account. This is when things got a little weird. I don't have a tumblr so I don't know what a normal tumblr is but when I looked at hers it about one third art pics, one third funny stuff and one third porn. Yet the further I scrolled down the weirder it got, a lot of the porn started turning into pics of dead bodies and like rape and stuff. There were gifs of people cutting themselves and what not. I try not to judge because I have some strange qualities that probably make people think I am crazy but I was a little freaked out. Anyways I kept talking to her on facebook because like I said we had a lot in common and it was good conversation. Later she also said that she has Bi Polar disorder, I don't know anyone who has bipolar disorder so I don't know what that is like from experience. I have heard that it can be bad though. She also said she use to camwhore, I don't really care about that though. Today she said she wants to meet up and I can't because I am out of town. I am very skeptical about meeting someone online. One of my friends met a girl online and they had 3 perfect dates and then had sex, It turns out the girl he met was a crazy sex addict who was having sex with over 15 other dudes she met online and she gave him the clap. Anyways I can honestly say if this girl is who she says she is than I really like her. But she could also be a crazy sex addict or a crazy person, hell she could be a 50 year old male rapist. I am also skeptical because why would a beautiful young girl need to make an online dating account? I want to know if yall think I should set up a date or just pass. I would also love to hear any of your experiences when It comes to meeting people online. Thanks and take care! *update*- Ok, the more I talk to her the more I really like her, yet the more I like her, the more she tells me crazy shit. Apparently she is borderline personallity disorder and is schizoaffective. I feel bad and I like her but I don't want to get into a potentially fucked up situation. She says she has gotten it under control and she seems like she handles it well. Does anyone know if those disorders are something I should stay away from? Please bless me with your advice.
Meet in a public place, first off. Then just kinda flow along with the conversation and pay attention to body language. By the sounds of things she seems a little dark but fuck we all have a bit of a darker side to us. I say go for it, buddy. You'll probably get some nice rough sex out of it. I banged a chick sort of like what you're talking about for a bit, met her online too. Was probably the best sex ever imo, I'll never forget that pussy. Edit: Remember to use a jimmie for your jimmie.
Well since you let her into your life (facebook) she knows more about u than she would had you just kept it confined to okcupid. My point being- if she is crazy, which she most certainly is, you're in for a possible stalker/stage5clinger. OR..... You could get a good fuck or two and that will be the end of it. But I warn you sir, tread lightly, especially with bipolar cutters.
Girls online do not exist Haha but seriously... http://forum.grasscity.com/sex-love-relationships/1294776-weirdest-date-experience.html Story of a girl I met off okcupid. My friend met his girlfriend of 4 years off okcupid and he's going to propose to her soon. I'd go on a date, it can't hurt. Just wear protection and don't knock her up if you sex. Also use your own condoms. I've been with some batshits in my day who poked holes in condoms to get my seed. Btw bi-polar means her mood changes from happy to sad, vice versa for no reason. Depending on the type, she can be depressed for 30 mins and happy right after, or she can be depressed for a week, season etc People seem to get bipolar mixed up with schizophrenic Omega369
I would kind of feel out how she's handling her bipolar disorder. Is she taking meds regularly and seeing a therapist or psychologist? Is she trying to better herself or is she just living for the highs and lows? That will tell you a lot about the girl you're dealing with. People can't help that they have a mental illness but they can help what they do about it. If she's not taking meds or anything, she's probably drama city.
All the girls I met online, I fucked Older women do use online sites, if your upfront with them, and let them know your only looking to fuck, they will fuck I would meet with the girl and hit it.....just be careful, like dont tell her where u live, or ur real name, ur real phone number
Pictures of corpses and rape and you're seriously considering meeting her? Eh old thread, she probably killed him
From what OP described, she sounds like she has a bunch of mental issues......probably even a sociopath or something. God knows but fuck that, those are some srs red flags.
If indeed she really has that, run away as fast as you can. I had one living with me some years ago and it/she was a disaster. BPD is a very serious disorder, one of the worst -- google it. I think Wiki has a good article about it. You will NEVER win with a BPD. They are master sweet-talkers and manipulators.