Yes man go for it... i had mine done... not gay at all.... girls love it... I have had girls hook up with me just for that reason. well i assume so.
i've seen guys with it done and i've never thought it was 'gay' on them. if you already look or act or seem 'gay,' it may be considered 'gay,' but otherwise, it shouldn't be a problem... i've had mine pierced before, but i got rid of it. i played with it way too much, and it just became annoying.. plus it was just one more thing to buy and bother with, so i said screw it. kinda missing it now, though.. but whatever. so if you want it, get it.
Had mine done for about 2 years, until I was rolling hard one night and somehow swallowed it. Shit closed up overnight. It was cool though. I was constantly playing with it though, even chipped a few teef on it
"if a girl has a tongue ring, she'll probably suck your dick, if a guy has a tongue ring, he'll probably suck your dick." -Chris Rock
Depends. Somepeople just don't look good withcertain piercings. Everyone has their tounge now, ive got my lips and it's not too bothersome.