I haven't really been able to get any pussy the last few years because I've been homeschooled since my sophomore year for fucking around not going to class and not doing shit while in class. Anyway, I've decided to go back to regular high school because homeschooling is a pain in the ass, plus I don't get to leave the house nearly as often. It's my 5th year, and I'll probably be one of the oldest students there. Problem is, I worry about possibly getting with a girl I really like and having to tell her that I'm a virgin. That's why I'm curious if I should just do it with some random girl to save my self of that humiliation. I won't go around doing a hooker or slob, but just some girl who might want to. I think I've had my chances in the past, but I didn't want a potential relationship with these girls. I probabaly would have fucked some of those girls for the sake of my virginity, but I was afraid they would want to get serious, which is what I didn't want. I mean there were a few that I really liked and would consider getting with, but I'm 18 now, and even if I did have a shot at the ones I really liked I wouldn't at all want to tell them about my virginity. So should I fuck a random girl before trying to get with one I really like?
No. Any girl worth being with would have respect for the fact that you didn't just lose it to lose it. I know guys get a lot of pressure about it, but I think its important to do it when you're ready with the right person. I don't think any girl worth being with would care, if I met a guy and he was a virgin id really respect that. Don't be embarrassed, its something to be proud of.
Its not that big of a deal. I mean if u r open about it and still cool, then the girls that no r gonna want to tAke it from u. So some of them will want u more. So I would say let the hottest chick at ur school take ur V card. And just watch porn so u no what ur during, then wreck her world, and she will tell people it was good then u got it when ever u want it. Don't kiss n tell on ur part though.
I agree with Treelover. Also I want to add that a girl might find it really exciting to be able to "break you in." She may also be relieved to not just be another notch in your belt. Be honest and say you were waiting for the right girl. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin.
First mistake would be telling her anything. If you just want to get laid, find a girl that looks like she wants some dick. It's not hard to tell who she would be. Second mistake would be caring, 99% of the population don't stay with their first for a long time. Third mistake is one you could learn from, and that's thinking being older is bad. Highschool chicks love older dicks, in fact most of them lose their virginity to an older kid. Use that to your advantage.
Not worth it, if you feel this much weight on a decision such as this, then you'd also feel the weight of shame after doing it.
yes do it. i lost my virginity when i was 16 to a complete stranger..best decision of my life. might sounds harsh but its the truth, for me atleast. not just for bragging rights, but it also helped for when i got into serious relationships, it was nice knowing what to do to please the girl you like. also, it opens your mind and made me more mature and thought differently about sex(in a good way)
Still stressing about your virginity is the cutest thing ever. Just go fuck someone it's really no big deal.
you shouldn't really worry about your virginity like that. I mean do it or not and it will still be the same when you end up having sex with a girl you actually care about one day!
See I've always liked a guy to be in control..know what I like..but part of me is like..ew how does he know all this lol.like sometimes my boyfriend is so good I'm like..how many girls has he done this too? I would LOVE to be with a virgin. Maybe because my first time wasn't special at all, I don't know but I know id love to break a guy in ^.^
Lost mine when i was 18. (socially awkward) Feelings might get cluttered, so getting with the right girl is key cause you will remember this forever cause its Awesome. Be safe, wrap it up, stay away from Suzie Rottencrotch.
Dude I would just say wait cuz my first girlfriend actual girlfriend In school was the one who took my virginity and then a couple weeks later we broke up and I regret that shit
Dude, I managed to read through your topic but no responses. But dude, are you so worried about being a virgin that you think someone you like will look down on that? If she loves you that much, then it wont be problem at all. And if it isn't about love in the first place, then you just want to add her to the list? If so, then you shouldn't worry about that. I was a virgin when my one gf wanted to screw. But it was a complicated relationship and there were a lot more problems, so we never did. It wouldn't be too difficult to see har again and sweet talk my way into her pants right now. Sure I want to, but it would just feel shitty. She cared about me and still does. But I don't want to fuck her just to say I did.
Last year I was in a simmilar situation, I wanted to loose my virginity so bad, because I was over all the: "LOL your a virgin" comments I was getting from friends. The opertunity came up, I was at a random party, got drunk and decided to have sex with a random chick. For full details check out this: http://forum.grasscity.com/sex-love...lost-my-virginity-last-night.html#post8098664 Anyway, If your didnt read it, it sucked, worst experience of my life. I regret it to this day. I wish I had waited to loose it to a girl I actually care about. The worst part OP, and I really hope telling you this makes up your mind. I got test, cause something showed up on my dick, I might have herps* now. Just cause I wanted to loose my virginity so bad. IMO you have nothing to loose by waiting, I doubt being a virgin would be a deal breaker for most girls, so stop worrying it all happen someday. *(the test came out negative, but the doc said she still thinks its herps.)
respect. didn't think I'd see anything like this in here. OP, forget losing it because of humiliation lose it because you want to. I am in the same boat as you, and have had several opportunities to smash random bitties but don't want to lose it to a random chica I won't ever see again. All in all, we tend to think the world cares and notices but it really doesn't. Honestly, it's instinctual anyway you can't be that bad at it if you've ever seen a porno, I'd say the only thing standing in my way after the fact is probably not being able to hold onto my nut for long. lol In fact, whilst searching for the meaningful "right" lady for me, I've found that not jumping into sex first lets you sort the sluts/ problem childs out from the worthwhile ones. The slutty ones will just want the cock and probably be turned off by your innocence, but the ones that truly matter really won't care at all. But maybe i'm just optimistic
Dude....just do it. Being a virgin is temporary and technically if you've masturbated, you've had SEX. It's basically the same except you get to talk to someone other than yourself when you're doing it. It's fun.....try it.
You don't really loose anything really, there is nothing to not be intact lol. It's all in the head if you think about it you can still be a virgin and pretend it never happened and if you try hard enough to erase it from your memory you will succeed.