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Discussion in 'Pandora's Box' started by Del420, Nov 25, 2004.

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  1. #1 Del420, Nov 25, 2004
    I woke up this morning happy and excited about Thanksgiving. I can recall from all previous years a happy and joyful day. From the moment my father walked in the door I could tell today was going to turn sour. My father is a really arrogant and ignorant person, everything is everybody else\'s fault when it comes to his wrong doings. Anyway, my dad was showering and my mom is yelling at my sister because she was refusing to do anything my mom told her to do (my sister is 7). My dad starts furiously screaming in the shower \"Shut the fuck up you stupid bitch\". My mom goes in there to try to calm him down and he continues to scream and curse. Then I yell out \"It\'s thanksgiving!!! Can\'t we at least TRY to be happy today?\" My father replies \"Shut the fuck up mind your own buisness\". I sat there in disbelief and tried to put it behind me and play my video game. He came out of the shower and told me that him and I were going to have a talk about how I acted after my family left. Soon after I hear him screaming downstairs at my mom. I, being protective of my mom from my furious father, ran downstairs to make sure he didn\'t hit her or anything, and he is going literally insane screaming. So i once again screamed at him. There was about 20 minutes of screaming and cursing before he finally left. What im asking for is.. What should I do? Im so confused.. he totally ruined my day as well as my sister and mom. Im not a violent person so I don\'t believe I will ever attack my father, but im not so sure about him. I don\'t want the police involved for various reasons. But I don\'t want to see my family teared apart after all these years. Any advice?
     
  2. #2 Opivy, Nov 25, 2004
    thats terrible. so he left, where did he go? i\'d suggest try having a good time with your mother and sister for the rest of the day. does he have any anger problems? just try to avoid him until you figure something out. sorry this had to happen on thanksgiving
     
  3. #3 Greenhit, Nov 25, 2004
    shitty dude
     
  4. #4 RMJL, Nov 25, 2004
    Don\'t let one person ruin your entire day. Granted, he was an ass and attempted to ruin the day for everyone but forget about it and go on as if he doesn\'t even exist. He really doesn\'t sound worth stressing over. He definitely has an anger problem and no one can fix that but him. He isn\'t the only peson in the world and life will always continue after his do show you and others respect...be thankful, in general. Today could have been worse.

    Try to have a Happy Thanksgiving!!!! :)
     
  5. #5 Del420, Nov 26, 2004
    Thanks all of you, I had a pretty decent time today.. I just heard him walk in the door now and I\'ll try to just ignore him.. Happy Thanksgiving
     
  6. #6 KilltheKlown, Nov 27, 2004
    just knock his bitch ass out thats what i did to my dad when he stepped outta line...


    you just gotta put bitches in thier place and everything will be alright
     
  7. #7 TheDudeAbides, Nov 27, 2004
    \"Smoker was a concencious objector, man! he\'s Fragile...Very Fragile\"

    The guy doesnt want to resort to violence. good for him.
     
  8. #8 AimedForDeath, Nov 28, 2004
    I know the feeling, on thanksgiving, my dad yelled at me and I looked at him because he\'s always threatening to \'beat my ass\' so i stared into his eyes and said \"what the fuck you gunna do? because if you do you\'ll be sitting in jail\", and he grabbed me by the shirt and dragged me down the stairs and said \"we\'re fucking going to talk in the basement you little fucker\" and I just ripped away from him and said \"get the fuck off me you piece of shit!\" and I mean my dad is a big guy! hes 6\'3, 260? .. somthin like that.. anyways.. I ended up sittin in my room cuz all my friends we\'re doin shit with ur fams, and he came in my room.. looked at me, said somthin, and we had a talk, and i said \"i just want you to leave me alone..!\" and hes like \"forever?\".. and i told him yes.., he looked at me, like he was really hurt, and said \"well buddy, you got your wish\".. I actuly felt kinda bad.. I mean even now stuff isn\'t back to normal with me and him, he isn\'t talking to me as much... hmm.. i feel kinda bad... did i do the wrong thing?
     
  9. #9 Del420, Nov 28, 2004
    Nah man it wasn\'t the wrong thing. Sometimes people think a little bit too highly of themselves. Or maybe its ignorance. My dad isn\'t a very clear thinker. A drunk... I know it\'s NEVER good to argue with a drunk.. it only leads to a fight. Sometimes I think people need a reality check, and I hope to do that to do my yet.. Words don\'t seem to affect him, so I dont know.. Im a bit of a pacifist
     
  10. #10 Fëanor, Nov 29, 2004
    Now, usually I\'m against intoxicating a person without their knowledge, but if you bake him a batch of special brownies, that might calm him down. Just make sure he doesn\'t smack them away or something. He would look at you funny when you dove to the ground and started fervently gathering all of the browny chunks...:D
     
  11. #11 JusDog04, Nov 29, 2004
    Suggest them gettin a divorce, its quite easy actually. Your parents split up, they both find mates, you get twice as much presents at christmas and twice as much money on your b-day and everyone ends up being more happy and plus if your mom gets a boyfriend and whatnot she wont be as strict and you can smoke your bud in peace.

    peace out negro.
     
  12. #12 sblmxpx03, Nov 29, 2004
    Sounds like your dad needs counseling del420. I\'m sorry to hear you\'re father is like that. I wonder if he\'d cool off if he smoked some bud.

    Aimedfordeath: Maybe your dad needed to hear something like that to shake him up. Maybe it will be for better. I know how you feel though. I would feel so horrible if i said that to one of my parents. I\'m lucky enough though, that my parents don\'t get that angry very often. I don\'t think i\'ve heard one of them yell in several years.
     
  13. #13 General Blaze, Nov 30, 2004
    thats shame..i havent seen my father in many years but if i saw him again and he screamed at me or my mother or brothers id shure as hell knock him out without hesitation, then stomp him.
     
  14. #14 MrBubbles, Nov 30, 2004
    Despite my whole family viewing me as the black sheep of our herd, I still protect everyone in my household with all my might. I\'m always defending my sister (22 years old and im 18) from my mom being a bitch to her, then I\'ll defend my mom when my dad finds out she was bitching at my sister, and i defend my dad from the reality that his dreams will never be fullfilled. Just a big house of love eh. lol.
    seriously though del, go psychological on him. when he stats yelling calmly ask him if thats how his dad treated him and his mom when he was a kid, and turn stuff around to where its not only helping him see how horrible he\'s being to the people that love him, but it wil help you to understand him better, to know better why he does the things he does.
     
  15. #15 Del420, Nov 30, 2004
    Thanks all, its nice to recieve input without hearing \"beat his ass\"
     
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