Well I'm 18 and still a virgin. I'm around a lot of girls who are sexually active. I had and have many opportunities to hook up with some girls but I'm hesitant because I'm self conscious about my size. I stand 4.5 inches erect and I feel that this is way to small. How do I approach my problem? I don't want to be embarrassed first time getting into something sexual.
4.5? You sure you didn't make a typo? But really though, I wouldn't know what it's like in your situation, but find some average/chubby bitch and fuck her a few times to get your confidence up. Take some levitra or something.
Maybe just focus on making them feel good... get them worked up before whipping it out, etc... Honestly, the fact that you're worried about it probably means you'll try harder and put more effort into working with what you have... and possibly make them feel better than some of the other guys they've been with. In reality, your lack of experience will probably hurt you more than your size, so keep that mind and don't let one bad experience ruin it for you... first times can be train wrecks, even with a huge one. The other downside is some random slut would be quicker to make a smart ass comment about it than a serious girlfriend would be. If that happens, just jam it in her ass without any lube and ask, "Still feel small?" It's bigger than a tongue and look what those can do to a girl.
nobody loves everything about themselves. i feel like i am the full package when im by myself. but when im around other people i lose my confidence sometimes
Oh my god. You turned my scattered thoughts into words. Not just the bolded, but all of it. Seriously, follow this. Your size is much further down on her list than how you make her feel and I'm not just talking about how you make her pussy feel. Just don't hold back and make love to her passionately. Take her cues and go with the flow. That's all she wants, since, ya know, she did get in bed with you. All of this and confidence. You here it all the time. It's no secret. Be yourself. Be confident being yourself. Dick size is the last thing on anyone's mind.
Dude, don't worry about it, yes that's on the small side of average, AVERAGE, most men are around the 5 to 6 inch range, (learned it in a psych class examining male inferiority complex and penis envy). The best advice is, as a few have already mentioned, to go in with confidence as and act as though your packing 8 inches. Trust me, the actual coitus is only a small part of the sexual experience, its not just how you use your penis but more how you use your whole body. There are much more important aspects to the sexual experience such as fore play. If it will help consider hiring an escort, not a street hooker, but a clean and knowledgeable escort who does the girl friend experience. Shes a professional and will not judge you and provide encouragement...and a few tip if you ask. Maybe getting your first experience out of the way with her might help you overcome this faster.Trust me you'll be fine and years from now you will look back at this and feel silly for ever doubting your self over an issue so trivial. Good luck.
I recently lost my virginity to a prostitute. im kind of a late bloomer compared to most people but I have no regrets with what I did. My size isn't much to be proud of either. It did give me confidence and a little feeling of self worth.(for the moment at least) Do your best downwitit, not saying to just simply go out and have sex with a prostitute but just sex in general. Its quite an experience once you just decide to go with it. I think budda put out a great input for you. I hope you gain something out of this thread.
This should be your gameplan: 1.oral sex 2.oral sex 3.oral sex 4. After she has came 10 times, SURPRISE "I brought dick too"
Speaking from experience, small dicks aren't a bad thing. Especially if you happen to be thick too. But even if you aren't thick, trust me, sometimes small dicks work wonders. The best orgasms I've ever had have been from an ex, who's penis was way under 5 inches...hell it may have even been 4 inches. And my current guy was a virgin when I met him. I thought it was cute, to be completely honest. Like everyone else said, it's all about confidence. Just go with it and see what happens.
Step One: Look youself in the mirror Step Two: say "I have a below average length cock." Step Three: Yell "FUCK IT!" as loud as possible Step Four: Never think about it again Step Five: Approach the next girl you remotely wanna fuck and smash that shit as hard as you can. I mean break springs in the mattress. Hit it so hard your lifting her off the ground every thrust. THEN see if she or any other girl cares about the size of your dick after having to ride in a wheelchair for a week. its nbd bro as long as you can make them cum. Thats all they care about.
First of all, girls lie. Even if you have a small, just slightly above average pricker, she's not gonna care, at the very least you not wife'n these girls (Long Term relationship) You, my friend need to balance your "fear" with some thing that offsets like being good at oral or something. I put it to you like this, you need worry less about the size of your dick and more about the pussy you could be getting. The cervix will take care of you. That said, get out there and start fucking. Also, if you don't believe me...just google Cervix--if i spelled it right. And see what it does.
Don't sweat it! Eat her out like it was the last supper and she won't care. As for your dick, you are 18, you can tax that ass for days without stopping! Stick it in, wiggle it around and get your nut!