hello my name is patch im here becouse this is one of my husbands sights & now im a member we have been seperated for over 5 weeks iv cought him having afairs on the pc & surfing porno sights this is a big no no in my home he did it any way anyone else have a spouse that has left for an internett lover this has wounded my soul & my marrige ? im not sure if i can forgive him & i dont think he wants to come back anyway he is 43 and looking for that euforic feeling of lust *& sex weve been maried for 16 years and that dosent exist anymore !!! i guess here is a place im looking for help & spying on his afairs to take to counseling someone please help me sighned dazed and confused good spirits to all!!!