hard to say. strain dependant, how fast they are growing, lighting etc... Always go by the trich colors. I like all cloudy rather than yellow or clear
She has endured some stress somewhere along the line and pooped some pollen. You’ll still get bud. Let them seeds mature and I think they’ll be most likely feminized. Not sure about that. Maybe somebody else can share on that subject.
i did notice what looks like pollen on a near by leaf but couldn't fund the sack or banana or whatever. Like you said i will just let it go
Yeah, it's a he/she cuz those are pollinated man. Those seeds will be female (feminized) if it was forced (chemicaly or through stress like light leaks) . If it's genetic however, you also have a great chance of passing on the hermaphrodite trait. Are those seed bank seeds? If so you're probably fine using them and they will be female. Did you stress that plant any that you know of? If so you are probably okay using them too.
You still have a week or maybe 2 then, just depends on so many things. You may want to wait for the seed to mature, I wouldn't, seed are too cheap to waste time on a maybe.