HEPATICOÂCHOLANGIOÂCHOLECYSTÂENTEROÂSTOMIES one time, and one time only, a girl gave me a safe word. i thought "why dont you just say stop?". she had said she liked to get rough and so she wanted a safeword, but it wasnt like i was whipping her ass or doing any kinky shit...the only thing i really did that might've made her use the safeword was putting my hand *lightly* around her neck...so i wouldnta heard her use it anyway