This will be long but I'm in need of some advice, so please help me out. Well this he is an ex roommate now, his name is Jay. So I was living with a friend of mine a couple months back and we worked together at a coffee shop. I ended up getting let go because there was too many people working there so I was pretty fucked. I had no car (we rode together everyday) and no money to help me find a new job. But still I tried my best to find work, a couple weeks later, not even a month, my "friend" tells me if you don't find a job/get money to pay rent by the first of the month, then I'll have to leave. I said that's cool. no problem at all. That happened on a Thursday, it was maybe two weeks into February. So the next day my friend invites me to come hang out at his college for the weekend and I went. I forgot my phone charger and my phone ended up dieing. We head back on Sunday and Jay calls my friend that I'm with and says he threw all my shit outside and I have to move out that day because I was ignoring him but my phone was dead.... no warning, no nothing. And he was pretty hostile towards me when I got there to gather my stuff even though he had no reason to. I'm glad he never did anything though. I told him that this is one of the most fucked up things you can do to a person and I will never forgive him. That was the end of it I thought. So I move in with my cousin and I will be here for the summer while I wait to go to basic training. I'm joining the Army and trying my best to better my life and get an opptunity to do something great. Everything was going fine for a couple weeks and then Jay starts harassing me saying that I ran out on a debt and I'm being a coward. even though he was the one that kicked me out? I supposedly owe him him around $400 for the one month I was out of work. But all the sudden he now is starting to harass my mother saying he will take me to court and fuck up my military career. It's one thing to constantly bug me about this but bringing my mom into this? that's fucked up. Also I never signed a lease. And when I initially moved in with him, it was to help me get on my feet and he even said that. The first month I lived there, I didn't pay rent but he was fine with it. But now he's going back and saying I own him for that as well. So I'm pretty sure he would never win in court and the way he is acting is really starting to get to me. I mean really? threatening my Army career? If I wasn't committed to this, I'd go right over to him and beat that motherfucker. But that's out of the question. I'm sure I went all over the place with this so I will clear things up as needed. Help me out blades.