Relationships with other/Social interaction

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by ImNotLow, Nov 20, 2011.

  1. Okay, so I find myself faced with the fear of talking to other people, I get nervous and don't know what to say. I often think about what others think of me, and I have low confidence and self esteem.

    Social Anxiety is what it'd be called, but I might have found the root of the anxiety.

    Now, no making fun, but I think it may be to to increased levels of masturbation and porn observation. I was doing some research online, and I've found that veering away from porn may help increase confidence and the desire for social interaction. What's everyone else's input?

    And I know I DO have a porn problem, I wank it like, 3-4 times a day. I know I need to solve that, I just don't know if it's the root of my social phobia, so I was just posting to know if anybody has experience in this department, and if they feel it'd help with my social problems if I just went cold turkey and stopped beating it.

    Try and remain mature please, despite how funny some may think masturbation is.
  2. I feel ya actually, I am what they call a social retard. I just suck at being social.

    Hang in there and you will find a hot chick to stick your dick in one of these days.
  3. Try not smoking weed. And stop thinking you have social anxiety that's what psychologists are for. It will also make it worse. You need to break that pattern of thinking. Everyone else is nervous when they meet new people too. I'll bet if you started talking you could ramble on like anyone can.
  4. Easiest and most simplest approach to this kinda problem is put your self in uncomfortable situations and adapt
  5. I've had problems with social anxiety for a while now. I know it's hard but you just have to put yourself out there. I don't think quitting masturbation will solve any of your problems.
  6. I mean I think porn is kinda not a factor with your anxiety. Just observe people in those "situations" that you feel awkward in. Then put yourself in the situations and just keep at it. Shid....everybodys nervous in some situations you'll be fine man

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