Ok guys, sorry if this is not weed related, but it's 2:30AM and i can't sleep. So I could really use some help on this one.. So, i read through this whole thing and thought i would sum it up for you. John loves Jane, but Jane loves Tim, Tims no good for Jane but Johns really possessive, AND 22.John WILL provide anything for Jane. Jane and John are really good friends of mine but i dont want to see Jane get hurt. Jane obviosly feels something towards John or else they wouldn't be with each other all the time..I have tried to support John through this because i know that he will provide for her, but he is possessive and she likes to flirt, even in front of him. Now that can't be good for her and I would love to step in because i know i could be good for her. All of our mutual friends suggest to me that i should try to go out with her, but i see her as a really good friend, and don't want to ruin that friendship. To be honest with you, this whole situation is fucked up...I shoudn't even be writing this, but i just HAD to get it off my back, I would love any feedback though. Back in June this new girl was hired at my job. We'll call her Jane. Now she wasn't seeing anyone at the time and her and this other guy at work hooked up.We'll call him John. Jane is 17 and John is 22. it didn't work out between them so they broke it off, a month down the road she started going out with this guy who is 15. Lets call him Tim. They have been going out for about a month, but really only see each other maybe once a week. and thats on her payday (see where im going with this?) Tim uses her for weed and money. Where does she get her weed and money? from John. He buys her everything, but the funny part of it is that she never asks for anything. He will offer something until she takes it. Weed...a pack of cigarettes a day..candy..food...ya get it? Jane is all that John talks about. 24/7 all he wants to do is be around her. she has a boyfriend (in her eyes) and loves him as much as John loves Jane, does that make sense? So I thought I wanted John and Jane to be together, because at this point we have turned out to be really good friends (John and Jane) And I take Jane to school every morning (including this one in about 4 hours) and we normally go out for a cig at lunch. Now I'll tell you that even though i KNOW that John will always provide for Jane, he is possessive and she is a flirt. All of her friends are guys pretty much. But I can tell that she doesn't want to be around him because they are always together and she needs some space. So, even though I know that John will provide for whatever Jane needs and really loves her, is it bad that he smothers her (not knowing it) and is really possessive? Ok, this whole thing has gotten kinda confusing, remember, i am tired as fuck but i can't sleep on this one. any advice would be great.