Relationship or not

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by happyhacker, Dec 13, 2016.

  1. #1 happyhacker, Dec 13, 2016
    Just recently started hooking up with this girl from my college. She's pretty attractive and the fact that she speaks Russian is hot to me. Anyway we decided to become exclusive fuck buddies. Her roommate thinks that making it exclusive equals relationship. Thoughts?
     
  2. #2 lessthanjeezy, Dec 13, 2016
    I mean if you aren't dating each other it is kind of weird to be putting limits on who you can and can't fuck, sounds like a relationship to me.
     
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  3. #3 Ganoo, Dec 13, 2016
    If you're gonna go and limit yourselves to each other just ask her out.
     
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  4. #4 AlexanderTheGreat3161, Dec 13, 2016
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  5. #5 spliffington, Dec 13, 2016
    Sounds like you 2 stumbled backwards into a relationship. It happens. Ask her out.
     
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  6. #6 happyhacker, Dec 13, 2016
    The thing is I'm happy not labeling it as a relationship. I just want to fuck and cuddle but not have to go on dates or deal with each other's problems. So, very much like a relationship but not quite.
     
  7. #7 SirInfi, Dec 13, 2016
    Just pretend as long as you can.
    You're young, relationships will hold you back.
     
  8. #8 happyhacker, Dec 14, 2016
    Well good thing I didn't listen. She gave me chlamydia
     
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  9. #9 spliffington, Dec 14, 2016
    Well, this escalated.
     
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  10. #10 InhaledGold, Dec 15, 2016
    Was totally salty that you had a fuck buddy and I don't but hey at least I didn't get an sti lmao.
     
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  11. #11 guod, Dec 15, 2016
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  12. #12 MN4Lyfe, Dec 15, 2016
    Wrap it up and keep going

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  13. #13 happyhacker, Dec 15, 2016
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  14. #14 grasscoty, Dec 15, 2016
    But don't fall in love! She's a beauty, one in a million girls. Why would I lie?
     
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  15. #15 King Willie, Dec 15, 2016
    Lol, things going good on Monday, chlamydia by Wednesday.
     
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  16. #16 happyhacker, Dec 19, 2016
    Life's funny like that sometimes isn't it..
    For the record she tested positive and I did not. But I cut her off because STD :shrug:
     
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  17. #17 Jason Van Jason, Dec 19, 2016
    The fact that her roommate is dictating shit is not a good way to start a relationship... This is gonna be ugly, if you choose to move forward with the relationship.. Date a girl who has control over her own mind.
     
  18. #18 dickie fickle, Dec 19, 2016
    .
    You ever travel the ol' dirt road ?
     
  19. #19 happyhacker, Dec 20, 2016
    You have to go down the dirt road at least once.
     
  20. #20 nascarfan, Dec 25, 2016
    Actually, if you're going to have a fuck buddy, an exclusivity agreement makes a lot of sense. It minimizes the risk of STDs to both parties.

    But I think you and this girl should make sure you're on the same page about what you want. Wouldn't want her to get the wrong idea.
     

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