So im a lesbian and ive been dating this girl for over a year and today i find out she has a tinder.... So i go through her phone to find her tinder and i see all these messages from girls and her calling them beautiful and them calling her beautiful and one girl was like come get in bed with me and my girlfriend said shed love too. Should i be mad or okay with this? Please help. Sent from my VS920 4G using Grasscity Forum mobile app
3somes something y'all talk about? Let her know you are uncomfortable with her talking to other women. Comfronted her about it yet? .................................................... I dont do drugs, I set plants on fire and breathe.
If you're dating her and she's talking to other people, then you have every right to be upset if you are. I would talk to her about it. Say something like, "I feel guilty for doing so, but I went through your phone and found...."
If it is something that makes you uncomfortable, you should bring it up with your girlfriend. I would be offended if I felt like it was something that was being hidden from me, but you should say something. If it upsets you, let her know. If the behavior continues, then you will know what you need to do. Also, going through her phone is a dick move, and it's probably going to cause trouble for you to bring it up, but as is mentioned below me, obvious trust/respect issues. Probably not the healthiest relationship to begin with.
Well she betrayed you by being a little loose, who knows how loose? You betrayed her by going through her shit. Sounds like respect is missing from this relationship on both sides.
Yea, you should be mad unless you are just fwb. You should discuss what is ok, what isn't, what is cheating in each persons view before you date to avoid this crap. I'd confront her, right now.
Bringing things like that up scare me. Idk... I care so much that like anything that could make us fall apart scares me. But i confronted her. She said that its " just her friends" idk what to believe. So i moved out. At least until i can figure things out Sent from my VS920 4G using Grasscity Forum mobile app
on the real she shouldnt even be on tinder if you guys are in a monogamous relationship.. isnt that for meeting up and fucking random people that live close to you? its one thing to watch porn and look at pictures n shit what ever. but its a whole other thing to go out of your way to find people within banging distance and tell them you wanna fuck.. too close for comfort for me, i would be upset fosho.
Good for you Never settle for being a door mat. Youll hate yourself for it. You know what to believe, its why you moved out!
Thats true. I dont know. This entire thing sucks but at least i wont be wondering Sent from my VS920 4G using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Its never easy to find out your sig. Other is a liar. Lying and cheating go hand n hand. Ask yourself, what is my value? Do i deserve this? I think it makes it easier. Im soo soo sorry youre hurting. Weve all been there at least once. Karma will get her! Youve got support here, feel free to vent anytime.
Damn that sucks, glad you took things into your own hands and moved out, good for you! That being said though, looking through your partner's phone isn't a good move in a relationship.
No. Its been on there for as long as tinder has been up and running Sent from my VS920 4G using Grasscity Forum mobile app