So yeah I am kinda seeing this one girl, my buddies sister . Everything's all cool with that, but it's the fact she never brings her own weed or booze she expects me to get her high and drunk... I don't want to bluntly say "get your own shit bitch" but yeah it may have to come to that !
Tell her you're going to pick up and ask if she wants to go halfs.. If she expects to smoke it it'll be hard for her to say no.
if you don't have anything it forces them to go out and buy it themself,just "don't have any" --- best way to put moochers on the right path. if your really seriuos about it get a dug out, 1 pinner 1 hit, and she never sees the bag or what you have.
Sadly, if you're dating her, it's basically an unwritten rule you have to smoke her up if she's hot. I hate it as much as you man, but that's just the way it goes. As for booze, however, you should definitely tell her to buy her own. And if it's awkward, we both know it's your own damn fault for letting it get to this point.
Unfortunately that IS true so your gonna have to suck it up dudeno way out of it. But listen, if you get her high and drunk, you can fuck her, so think of it as sex in exchange for drugs and alcohol Try living in egypt, you tell one girl you get high, the next thing you know, you've been asked by 10 to get them high. Meh I don't mind, hash is cheap here, too much supply I geuss
Find out if she is using you, tell her you have nothing and you just wanna hang out or something. If she doesn't want to be with you when you're dry then you know she is not worth the time. Heed that advice, I am a huge sap and would probly end up fucking myself over in your situation.
If she's hot, I don't see the problem. Maybe I'm missing something? Seriously, though, dude, you're going to have to suck it up. If you're lucky, she'll probably do some suckin' too.
i dont think thats entirely true. i never expect guys to smoke me up or get me drunk. i mean, its nice when they do-- and often they do, but i think the reason they enjoy getting me high and drunk is because i always have my own shit too. i always bring my own shit and then end up not even having to pack any. but the fact that it's there and that i didnt walk in empty-handed looking for handouts shows everybody that as a girl stoner, i can take care of myself thank-ya-very-much... and thats a turn-on for a lot of guys and makes them want to showcase their own buds. {(plus.. i often have better herb than a lot of my male counterparts )}
well Smokey, you are pretty good lookin', but from what I have seen unfold, when we are at your place, don't offer her a beer or a bucket. Or offer one and no more. It doesn't make you an asshole. As soon as she got there you offered her a beer and a bucket. No problem, but don't let her think that is how its going to be. She told me herself that she gets guys and shit to pay for her and gets free weed all the time. So....
Tell her to help pay for the weed and booze or spread her legs haha. The first time I hang out with a girl I will pay for the shit. But after that she has to chip in...unless she's lettin me hit it. That's a golden rule when it comes to hangin out with girls.
well of course there is always the exception to the rule. +rep for being a chick being willing to match on occasion and not feeling it's a right to smoke other people's weed.
from a girls point of view thats definitely the best way to go. you dont wanna outright say im not gonna pay for your shit anymore but youre also making sure thats not all she wants outta you. ive tested some guys like that before, like if i suspected they were just using me for bud or cash. so yeah go ahead and give her a chance to prove that shes for real.
Hey man, tell her to pitch in, like get around to it somehow, and soon. Otherwise she'll never stop mooching, even if you get around to telling her to stop later. Now or never.