Never thought I'de be preaching the truth about cannabis in MY home that I pay the mortgage on to my own wife. So guys if your sig other is understanding take it from me you are truely blessed and if she JOINS you...trust me YOU HAVE found heaven so toke and enjoy one around the spouse for me...cause I can't
We are lucky. I grew up in a house where my parents told me the straight up truth. My little sister just went through the D.A.R.E program, and was an award winner from her school, and she is very educated on it. She had to give a speech at her school, and talked about the dangers of alcohol and violence, but not marijuana.
I gathered from your wording that your wife simply buys into all the propaganda and believes cannabis will, in one way or another, destroy your life (and by extension, hers), and that's why she disapproves. Please correct me if I'm wrong. Anyway, if you guys are married, it's her house too. Which one of you pays the mortgage is irrelevant. That said, your wife needs to relax her grip on you. You are a grown man with your own thoughts and feelings, and you are (I assume) perfectly capable of making your own decisions. She certainly has a right to voice her opinion and expect you to at least consider it, but in the end, what you do with your own body is up to you. She is NOT your mother and for her to expect that you'll "obey" her is utterly ridiculous and incredibly disrespectful. To be fair, you do need to seriously consider her feelings about all this. She's obviously upset for a reason. If you don't respect her enough to hear her out and give her opinion some weight, then you guys probably shouldn't be together. If you can't agree to disagree on this and come to some sort of compromise (you'll only smoke in the basement or garage, and she'll shut the fuck up about it, for example), it might be time to really examine your relationship and figure out why you're actually married. Good luck
Who missed it? Things change, guys. People change. Maybe the guy only started smoking recently. Care to clear this up for us, OP?
Click the first link in my sig, call her over, tell her you want her to read just the titles of the articles and studies. Granny
wow thanks for all the assumptions folks. only one of you got it right That's exactly what happened. hell when we first got married I was not atheist (she will never know that either...her fragile ego could not handle that) and was just accepting alcohol as being ok I've smartened up about a lot of things What makes it more surprising is how honest and communicative with each other we are. We've worked through a bunch of other issues and she has always be rational even when what I said was contrary to her beliefs. but not on this. she always see's it from my pov, but not on this