It's hard but don't let them get to you. Don't allow their words to have meaning. Your mind controls how much value is placed on their words. Their words are a reflection on them, not you. Your view of your self worth is all that matters. Don't be self destructive. In time, the behavior will adjust once they see its not doing shit to you.
Yes! This! Mtml, families have a way of fucking you up. I say this from experience lol. Sent from my [SG s9+] using Grasscity Forum mobile app
I will say though if your families opinion of you only recently changed with the drinking habit, that there might be fault on both ends but i have no fuckin clue what the situation is. Im just familiar with alcoholism causing troubles with parents, cause ive been there. Dont take it as hate MTML, definitely not intending that lol just another perspective to ponder
yeah. none of us have the full story here, and I suspect that your parents have some good intentions that are being masked by their anger or disappointment. I think they probably want you to be happy and do well, as I told you. parents just have a way of being very bad at knowing how to help you, and can often seem like theyre trying to fuck you up more when they try to “help” or push you in the right direction. you control your own life, though... and drinking 15 beers a day isnt gonna get you where you need to go to be happier. remember.... I used to drink 12+ beers a day, so I’m not exactly saying this as someone with no personal experience in the area
nothing cures my hangovers these days I just have to live with them until I can get a nite of sober sleep. that said, I will certainly enjoy the hell outta some greasy grub and herbage I’ll usually also have one beer or something to put a little hair on my dog
Nope they been treating me badly most my life without realizing it. They constantly made us do chores growing up and, then told us we were useless and done nothing and, we never did those tasks. They didn't even care to get me drivers ed. That's shit I had to do on my own. They used to encourage my other two siblings to pick on me. Fuck them.
Yay i am happy you okay. I am excited for next year because me and my man are going to take the kids to my home Jamaica. ICW! ~Toni~
fair enough— more reason to get away from em! but I think you’ll probably realize that your relationship with them improves when you arent living with them as an adult the rest of what I said still stands though. the non-parents stuff
I used to. Think they were loving to. Until they screwed me outta disability money and called me a useless junkie.