By "your own way" you mean working for some shitty corporation or sitting behind a computer desk right? Or maybe you mean starting your own busness and become rich by yourself right? You are stupid. I just quit my job working in a dusty warehouse making $9.75 an hour breaking my back lifting 50 pound bags for over a year. Id rather be in the Army and work hard for a cause and a better salary. Unless your some kind of genius bill gates prodigy, you are gonna be somebodys slave.
As long as you have that outlook you will be somebody's slave. How do you think people survived thousands of years ago? People used to get in wooden boats and sail across oceans with no electronics. Bust your ass get an education, find something your passionate about and engross yourself in it. You can succeed in this world it just starts with turning off the tv and video games.