Hi guys, Never posted in here and don't really have a lot of people to talk to, in fact meet some really great people here to talk to and relate. I guess the main question on my mind right now is "Money or happiness"? I work in the city long hours in a job that drives me nuts (IT) earning a fair bit of money. My girl lives 3 hours away and we can only see each other every weekend either me go 3 hours by train or her come here. If I was to move there I don't have my licence or car and any jobs I could get would be at least a 30k pay cut. But I would be with her and her kids. Earning less money but also paying a lot less money for rent, bills, and child support.. (not that I wanna pay less child support) just how it goes. What would you do in my situation.? Thanks.