I'm intrigued... Although I don't think there'll be much response as the barriers against even considering this tend not to come down until later in life; but how many people here of either sex, who would answer heterosexual when asked of their sexual orientatation, have ever had a homosexual fantasy, bidden or unsought? I have, my wife has, two of three friends have. It doesn't mean we're gay and will ever follow through on it, or even necessarily that we're bi-curious, but in the heat of the moment, strange ideas can emerge that you can either enjoy or repress... Anonymous poll, of course. Melt
It is impossible to filter thoughts. They just happen. How you respond to those thoughts is what matters. Ever try to stop thinking about something?? You can't. Even when you're thinking about trying to stop thinking about something, you are still thinking. Huh??^
I agree with what has been said; the more your repress an idea, the more likely it is that you will want to act out this repressed idea. Personally I have never fantasized about a male person that I have met. However when i used to get 16 porn channels on satellite, (and we used to have it on all the time), the idea of giving a blow job rather than receiving one didn't seem all that unenjoyable, I mean the girls seemed to like it a lot. And I mean if i could I would probably suck myself off. Obviously I'm being brutally honest, so some people might freak out over that comment. However, I can't say that I've ever been attracted to any people of the same gender that I have met or seen. And actually the idea of thinking about them in a sexual manner isn't apealing to me... I have been hit by many gay people, of which some I have made me feel extremely akward, and some didn't cross the line enough to make me uncofortable, so I could still be friendly to them. But to think of a person of the same sex, in a sexual manner (other than in an isolated idealistic way... where I coudl think of myself as the second party) then I simply couldn't handle it.
I would say "No way Dude" as per homo-erotic fantasies go. But I will admit this... and if this is to be considered homo-erotic then I'll go with "Straight as a die, but yes." I do have at least some level of admiration towards the male form (I'm a male, btw,) at it's physical peak. Meaning extremely muscular/cut, and well-proportioned (think of the actors in 300,) but even thought I appreciate and admire that form, I still have no sexual urge like when seeing the female form at it's pinnacle. So, is it considered to be homosexual to admire another man's body? Is it even possible to admire the form of the same sex without there being some level of sexuality involved? I can go either way inside my own head... what are ya'll's thoughts? As per the fellating yourself issue... if you jacked off another guy, it'd be gay. But of course, we all jack ourselves off... so, if you can reach, I say suck away.
I hope the day will come when we can all stand on our humanity, steadfast and without judgment, but to answer the question, nah; I don't "accidentally" fantasize about dudes. Who cares though? Not me.
I have no attraction to males. I am, however, in love with the idea of women being with other women. So, what the hell does that make me? In my opinion, perfectly fucking normal.
Hell yes I shold do a poll and ask how many lucky GC'ers have ever been a...uh...party to witness such events as would make most men think they had died and gone to heaven? MelT
