Without getting into any particularly embarrassing details I'll just say that I'm...um, substandard in that regard. This has left me with little confidence and great anxiety towards the opposite sex, and to this day I'm still a virgin and have yet to have a date, even though a fair number of women have told me I'm good looking and have a great personality (not to sound narcissistic, I'm just stating past experiences). But recently, someone has expressed interest in me, and the odds appear to be stacked overwhelmingly in my favor. This means that the prospect of sexual activity is looming over the horizon. Granted I've been studying things such as cunnilingus, foreplay, and so forth, and I like to think I would do my damnedest to be very attentive. I also wouldn't mind relying entirely on the tongue and fingers, though it's doubtful she would feel the same way. At this point, I'm terrified of what is going to occur once I cross that threshold - I feel almost as if I should give a pre-emptive apology for not living up to normal male standards, though of course that would be about as sexy as leukemia. So, I would like some insight, from the women especially, as to the importance of penis size. What is ideal? How much has the cultural perception of penis size been distorted by the media? How important is it in regards to other factors in a relationship?
usually, i dont comment in threads like this, or any personal threads really. but in reading your post, you seem like a good person. look at it this way. do you have sex with people you love, or people you just want to fuck. if you have sex with someone you love, and they make fun/do whatever they would do... they really dont love you. i dont have this problem, but i am a great toungist. i was naturally givin a fast tounge. my suggestions are just to have sex. giving face is good, and could potentially get her so turned on she may not realize. just dont get too sloppy, girls hate that. also, be careful with your fingers, clip etc. you do NOT wanna be a captain redbeard. in all seriousness, you should really should NOT worry. if its casual sex, who cares.
If you with a girl and want to impress her.....lick her pussy and lick it well. If you can, get a finger going as well. As for size, well...um...i really don't know what to tell you. I don't know anything about pleasing a girl with different sizes, only got one size and it seems to work for me and my girl
If you really like this girl, and she likes you, she won't care about your penis size. Don't get me wrong, she won't be bragging to her girlfriends about how you're hung like a moose, but she'll be content with you and your member. Trust me, girls don't love your penis, they love you. Unless you're just trying to get some action, that's a whole different story.
I think the average size is like 5 1/2 - 6 inches. Dont be so nervous, sex is supposed to be fun - if your not satisfying her, you will know, then just switch to doing something else. There are some girls out there who LOVE the cock and want a 10 inch long, 7 inch girth monster... but i would say most girls dont really care as long as your confident and wax that ass. My 2 cents
and especially if the girl is a virgin too, she doesn't want a ron jeremy sized cock breaking her in. i've talked to girls who had sex for the first time with someone who was large and they said it was horribly painful and extremely unenjoyable.
It's the motion of the ocean sweetie, size doesn't always matter. If a girl really cares about you, she doesn't care what size you are. In my opinion it's worse to be too big then to be average sized or a touch smaller. If she's not a virgin, that's just fine too, that means she's prolly seen smaller. Don't be so self-conscious! Every guy/girl is built differently, just learn to accept yourself for how you are and make it work for ya If, all else fails take emagdnim13's advice
no homo, but how small are we talkin' here? If your packin like 2 1/2 inches i'd say your in for a shitty experience unless you really woo her w/ your foreplay skills and eating the box.
Seriously, don't worry about it. It sounds like you don't have much experience with all of the stuff that can come before sex. Focus on just your next step, loose yourself in that, and you won't worry so much. About penis size, it seems like you're ok with what you've got. You might not agree, but your having the balls to make a post like this says different. People responded to your thread because you don't come off as a jerk. Girls will think the same thing. If you are confident about that and persistent you will reach your goal.
Average is 4-6", so yeah... Most guys aren't that big to begin with... And from all the girls I've talked to on the subject, they say it's more important that you know how to work with what you have (these girls having been around quite a bit)... Having a big cock doesn't necessarily make you good. I've heard many a girl say "he's huge, but doesn't know what he's doing"... then there's the ones that say "he's not that big, but he can work it"... It all depends on the girl, really.
just hope you dont have a chode. do those realy exist?!? man you got be confident, just watch a lot of porn to get the gist f what the dudes do lol but dont pay attention to it that much...no homo
don't worry about your size man. Learn how to make her cum through oral sex. If you can make her cum, she won't give a shit about the size of your manhood.
I think sex is used way to often these days. Takes away anything special about it. Is it just my city? Or is it nothing but Hoeskies? Nobody wants a real relationship, and when they do, they go turn into a Hoe right after. Shit is annoying, Im ready to bounce out of this city. I met a really interesting German girl last night. Blew me away with her personality, Beautiful as well. To bad she was only in Vegas for a couple days.
Homie, youre in Las Vegas, dont expect to find a girl to bring home to Mom in a state that prostitutions legal. Anyways, back to the OP. Not to toot my own horn and shit, but I was blessed in that department, so I cant really relate. But duke, it IS mostly true about the motion of the ocean. If youve got a smaller size, just remember, to RIP that shit homie...not like straight up break her back in..You said you can listen and are attentive, if she wants you to go harder, go harder and vice/versa. Read up on G Spot techniques and when the time comes, dont be nervous.. **My personal belief**If you and her really love each other, have sex with her FOR HER. Make HER feel comfortable. Make HER cum. Make HER scream yo. Make sure its the best sex shes ever had. Just work on your 'OH' face...Ive crafted mine down to just a gritting of my teeth, so I dont look as retarded. PS-Theres always pills to increase your size, but use what God gave you homie. You never know, you could be a fuckin genius in the sack already..I know I was suprised when I first fucked...like damn...IM actually making her grab anything around her, just so she can control the orgasm..yeah dude..its a great feeling.
Its all about the motion, I havnt met a girl who has said, I just want a big one, that wont satisfy no lady if you dont know how to use it, anyways for all you know, she could have been with blokes who just care about themselves, as in jump on do the deed jump off without satisfying her, if you go in there making sure she is having a good time, it dont matter what size you are, she wont say nothing bad, make her blow first time and she'll keep coming back. Also while you making that sweet passionate love, reach down and flick that bean at the same time, they go wild for it, another tip is to get them so damn fired up before you even penetrate. Once you break that barrier of the first time together, get really in touch with her, find out what she likes what she dont like, sex dont have to be serious, its supposed to be fun, and as long as your big enough to penetrate (I cant imagine anyone who isnt) then your big enough for most girls. All in all, dont worry about it, smoke some herb, relax, and just go with the flow!
dude if you have like 2" get a dick implant y0!! damn average is 4-6? Wow I thought my 8" was average