Open relationships? What do u think?

no - and if my bf did

i'd throw him off the porch

then, i might shoot him

i think i'm the possesive type...

 

If both honestly feel for it, why not. But if one or the other in the relationship feels somehow "forced" to it, the relationship will suffer.

 

uhm not for marriage, this sounds like swinging but not quite as both sided,

but im in college, and id be cool with an open relationship

 

just to add to this, i had a possessive gf back in highschool, and it was absolute hell, the worst part is, its pretty hard to get away from cause something inside you makes you feel so bad

 

I'm only 32, but i know of very, very few open relationships that have worked, actually, i dont think any. I was in one kind of, but we were both still a little jealous. Even then it was more of an i knew she was cheating on me, so i did the same, we both knew the other was, but denied it to each other. Looking back it was kind of a screwed up relationship. The sex was great, we had fun together, but there was jsut never any hope of there being a relationship because there was absolutely no trust. This went on for over a year and a half. She still comes over from time to time when her b/f is working a double. We get each other out our systems and forget about each other until the next time.
I will honestly say this. It was annoying at the times when she had another to fuck and i didnt, but it was all cool when i had another. So, I think 9 times out of 10 it wont.

 

Nuts to that.

I have a hard enough time getting laid by one woman. Why would I want to disappoint two?

 

An 'open relationship' is one thing.

Be wary of when they come to you and say that you both need to go on a 'break'.

My ex fiance did that to me, the whole thing lasted three weeks before she dropped me to go and look for someone else to keep.

It's all vocational, you just have to be aware of the hints.

When she wants a 'break', she's not happy enough, and you better do your damnedest to please her or it goes right down the pipes.

 

If there are real feelings involved, it almost never works in the long term.

How can there ever be trust in a situation like this? There can't.

 

It doesnt work, period.


I tried it once, *someone* said someone elses name in bed and long story short

 

well i love my girl too much to do anything with another girl. she even wants to have a 3some wit one of her girlfriends ( that happens to be a girl i dated for 2 years and took her virginity) but i still feel weird. am i stupid for not goin through with it? i dunno i just feel like stickin to one girl.

 

Theres no point of being in a relationship with someone, if you go to sleep in anothers bed. If its love, you dont want to share.

 

Totally agree...I think it should only be a special thing...

 

Thats the beautiful aspect of a relationship. Finding fulfillment and contentment in another human being.

 

Im sorry but i haev a open relationship at the moment and its the best thing. We are together and care about each other but its alot more relaxed, its more of a intermate friendship thats what i see it as

 

If both parties are behind it, that's fine, but I don't believe they can work without some serious mental development.

I personally would never participate. My relationship with my girlfriend is on a level that love an sexuality are one piece of the greater whole. Satisfying sexual desire outside of the relationship is not only unnecessary but wrong to me.

 

im all for being in a relationshi[p and loving someone to death but come on man, how can you deny that opportunity. She is bringing it up, its a once in a life time chance. Look im a firm believer that if you trust your partner completly a threesome every once in a while is a very very very good thing so next time she suggests it what should you do you may ask something siminlarto that

 

lol yea well she tells me shes always wanted to be wit another girl and she figures since i already was with this one it wouldnt be like havin sex with a new girl. i dunno but yea shes the one that brought it up cuz when they both met they both connected. is still find it strange bein with a ex (2 year) and a new girl ( 1 year comin up on 17th). thats just crazy. lol. it was weird enough when they started hangin out and chillin together. but maybe that was a good thing!

 

ITS A TRAP!

Girl I dated a few years back suggested a 3some with her best friend, and I said sure, thats ever guys fantasy

She broke up with me for 2 weeks and it took a lot to get her back, but then again, I shouldn't have ever tried to get her back