Only hanging out with friends when they have weed

I had some friends in high school that turned into people like what you're saying now (not saying anything against you). We started out smoking every other weekend or every weekend, but they started to only hang out because of weed. It was like they didn't plan their day around going to the movies or going to the skatepark, it turned into let's just go smoke, and then it became second nature. Like no matter what we were going to do they smoked. That's not really my style so I got some new friends. I still talk to them but they are still the same.

My advice is get some new friends, or don't smoke every day. When you go to hang out with them, pass on smoking, or invite them somewhere and don't bring any weed.

Are you going wrong? I believe only you can answer that, but I think you should take a break. I think marijuana is an amazing drug, but it, like other casual drugs like alcohol, need to be used in moderation.

Hope this helps.

 

Ahh yes, there was a thread earlier this week with a guy who had the exact opposite position. Alot of people really hate it when their friends only hang with them to smoke bud. I'd say that you should tell them your busy, but when you do you like to smoke with them. But you should experience reality with those people too. Its just... I don't know, all my friends are equally proportioned.

 

My exact reason for not hanging out with them much after they turned into that. I smoke weed, but not daily and find it annoying when people just hang out for weed with no intention of doing anything else.

 

make a decent sized pickup, and invite them over and smoke them out. i think that if you invite them over once in a while and buy for them, they'll know that you're really their friend. You could say that it isn't worth it to buy 100$ worth of weed to smoke them out, but i guess its up to you to decide whether your group of friends is worth however much you want to buy.

 

RIP Jerry

 

That is stupid.

You are making it sound like a friendship is based on smoking people up.

 

I have 1 EXTREMELY annoying friend... like he's absolutely unbearable when he's high and stuff.. but he has weed, and it's easy to get some free off him (Although i'd prefer to buy off him and smoke without him.. since he ruins our high..).. If I could tell him off because he's not my kind of friend, I would.. but weed has to come from somewhere unfortunately.

 

You sound like your using your "friend" for weed, how can you call him a friend
More like an association or buisness partner, you buy off him that's all
That sucks maybe he knows you just use him for weed maybe thats why he kills your high

 

Nah, I hung out with him back when we were in school together, we were cool then.. but when he's high he's very annoying.. and pestering.. In controlled quantities or around other people he doesn't know as well he's MUCH cooler.

 

If all you are willing to do is smoke their shit then you are just using them for weed.......

You do not treat friends this way thus these people are not your friends, aquaintances at most...........

You need to buy a fat sack and go to them apologetically before they cut you off or beat you down for moochin....................

I HATE people like you.............. "I never have my own , but I am always willing to smoke somebody else's shit and give em a dollar and call it even"

If you are going to smoke it , you have to buy it, at least occasionally



Put it in other terms, what if your "friend" had a cool dirt bike and you only went over when he had it out, but you put gas in it. What kind of a friend are you being?


DON'T USE PEOPLE, SUPPORT YOUR OWN HABIT AND SMOKE YOUR "FRIENDS" OUT EVERY NOW AND THEN

 

Then when you do hang out with them that 1 day a week, don't smoke lol. I know you say you wanna preserve the days you hang out with them to smoke because you guys don't get the chance to hang often, but you still don't need to smoke on that day.

I don't wanna say start pitching them some $$ when you guys smoke beause to me, only non-friends pitch, so that would be strange seeing as how you wanna keep them as your friends. Maby smoke them out every now and then, but I think the simple truth is, don't smoke when you go over there

 

There's nothing worse than a scavenger looking for weed.

 

Yeah I had a friend like this... Only thing was he still live with his parents so we could only smoke at my house. He would only call or text me on days when we had weed or were talking about getting weed.

For instance we'd hang out everyday for 3-4 days smokin weed after class and work. Then we would hold off for a couple days. And during the time we were holdin off he would act like i didnt even exist.

So, we don't hang out anymore. My advice to you would be to jokingly bring it up at one point; say somethin like, "haha feels like we only hang out when theres weed" or some shit. If you talk about it with them, I'd say theres less chance of them gettin pissed. But if you just keep doin it and dont say a word, its gunna seem like all you care about is weed.

But really, just try to chill with them when they arent smoking. It doesnt always have to be about weed.

 

I hang out with my friends when they only have weed, but they only have weed all the time... and if they don't we are getting fucked up somehow so I don't have that problem.


BUt yeah I'd just smoke em up one day, or hang out with them when they dont got bud.

Just be like " ohh you don't got bud.. well thats all good i'll come over anyway"

 

sounds like one of my friend all he calls me for is to smoke all of my dro