I fucking hate it. I've met people on Craigslist over the years and can honestly say i don't speak to a single one anymore. Something about CL just screams creep to me now. I've been on OkCupid for a litte while... there's a few people i'm chatting back and forth with that seem ok, nothing spectacular.. Did just have a conversation with a guy off there who turned out to be one of the most ignorant dumbfucks i've ever encountered in my life. I was debating something with him (ie: You either like weed or you don't" and he said he smokes a lot but its not his cup of tea.. and i said that's bullshit, it makes no sense... and he argued with me and everything he was saying made no sense.. somehow he thought my point was "nobody does anything they don't like in life" wtf.. then he bounces out. pussy. couldn't even finish the conversation. regardless, anyone who starts a conversation by talking shit about some nameless, faceless person is a dickhead. in summation, online dating is fucking dumb.
i feel that, especially the craigslist point, for some reason CL just seems creepy. I've always like some degree of spontaneity when meeting people, and searching for someone online feels too much like I'm just shopping for someone as opposed to seriously getting to know them. Meeting people over dank is of course the best way to get to know them. Relaxation, common interests, and of course hella random ass conversation topics . And wtf kind of dumbass supposedly does something that he doesn't like, but is completely voluntary... smoke a bowl or two (or 5) and watch a violent action movie where the dumbass gets his comeuppance,
Online dating can be okay.... just luck of the draw. My gf and I met online. Still going strong, just rounded our 3 year anniversary. I dunno about CL dating though.... does kinda seem creepy.....
i did a couple of onlines and they were ok. not great but what do you expect from strangers? i know a couple of people who are still dating and they met online. so all in all like gimmie said -- luck of the draw.
I just read of a good site called plentyoffish.com its totally free and supposedly really good. It was in a buisness magazine and apparently this guy became rich becuase of advertisments of his page. Try it out.
i wouldnt suggest meeting no-one off here,,,,,, we male blades dont have no money{ spent it all on weed } so if your willing to foot the restraunt bill,,,,,, then by all means,,,,meet away....
No... nobody try out this site... its lies... all lies. I'm not even kidding. Even if you're lucky enough to keep your profile for more than 10 minutes (they randomly delete people... if they consider you "unfit to date". I know i'm not unfit to date... i barely filled my profile and added a picture and within ten minutes, i was deleted. Look up "plentyoffish complaints" online, you'll find plenty of places where people talk massive amounts of shit about it. Not to mention, during the ten minutes i actually had an account i was bombarded with spam and creepy old men writing me (despite the thing in my profile that had an age range of who i was looking for) Really, WORST SITE EVER. If you want a free online dating site, okcupid.com is the only decent one. what a horrible thing to say... i'm sure there are some functioning potheads on here that can afford to go out to dinner...
i dont spent all my money on pot i need money to live so plus i never really tried online dating i suck at relationship, BIG TIME!!!!!
I don't mind online dating, but i have this fear of once it's gets super serious and ppl ask "Oh how'd you meet?" Telling them "Internet" isn't the first thing that comes to mind. And I know, I shouldn't have to lie or make up a story for how I met a girl but I don't know, for me, Love, relationships, even the sex in between all come from the adventure. However, Ironically enough I have a condition that gives me small panic/anxiety attacks when I try to talk to girls I'm attracted too. (this being physical, mentally, etc.) Don't ask me why, but it happens. Online dating works, because it's online. I'm protected by my PC--(FUCK-A-MAC) to which helps break the ice. I met tons of girls through internet dating all of them really amazing btw, but in the end I always distance myself because I'd honestly hate to tell ppl i met a girl off of the internet. ...but at the rate i'm going, i just might have to do so...
I met my girlfriend on adult friend finder and after 2 years we are very happily living together and are almost complete opposites. Online dating can work its just a whole lot of hit and miss and takes alot of patience. works great for a guy in a new city too btw
hmm. i'm shy, and have social anxiety and don't have a social life so I don't meet any girls really. i've asked out 4 girls i think in my whole life and i'm 24. I dated one for 2 weeks, and another was my gf for 3 months. but still I don't like the idea of joining an online dating site even though I have thought about trying it. the thing is I feel like i'd come off as desperate plus I don't find it natural. I know i'd be super anxious meeting a girl i have only seen a pic of on the internet for a date it just feels weird to me. plus I have a feeling most girls on online dating sites are NOT hot looking girls because hot looking girls get hit on all day long and don't have much trouble finding dates in real life. and the guys on online dating sites are probably total losers that can't find dates in real life. obviously there are exceptions like people that are too busy to meet people or whatever.
It doesn't work. I know from experience. The last guy was absolute trash and a liar. He is on here, I hope he reads it though I already told him he is.
so far i wasnt having very good luck till about a month ago and meet this really rad chick online then meet her person in the bay area and am going to meet up with her when i go back down. shes toatlly cool about me beaing a stoner and that i know she doesnt smoke i simply compromise and go outside. so its just a luck of the draw
Thought I was alone on having no money. I really need a job. But yeah it depends on the online dating I would say. If your dating someone you met online and it's long distance like there in two different countries then yeah that's stupid. If your kinda shy and find it hard to just meet someone then finding someone who's relatively local to you through a dating site isn't that bad. I met my girlfriend at school though.