One day we speak, the other day she ignores me?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by orgchem, Feb 5, 2011.

  1. Hey guys,

    I didn't really know where to do go to ask for this advice, but I am hopeful I will get some advice over here.

    There is this girl that I have been seeing at university for a while and everytime I see her we exchange looks. She is really good looking and has the most amazing eyes i've ever seen (i know that sounds kind of gay).

    Well I've wanted to talk to her for a while and finally i summoned up the courage to do so on Thursday. I spoke to her for about 10 minutes and it was awesome, I really enjoyed it and I thought it went well.

    I saw her the day after and she was with one of her friends (another girl). This time she didn't even look at me (i am not even sure if she saw me). But yeah, is there a reason that she would ignore me? Did she not just see me? Did she want me to say hi first? I am so confused...

    Thanks so much guys!
     
  2. she was talkn with her friend. maybe she saw u, maybe she didnt. she cud have also done that to show her friend who she was talkin about. it aint shit, talk to her again whenever you want. if you like it get her number. go smoke a blunt or sumshit.
     
  3. Maybe she realized you were kinda lame after talking to you for ten minutes, and now wants nothing to do with you?

    Or you just need to quit overthinking shit wayy too much.
     
  4. I know how you feel (sorta). On new years day I had this party and there was this chick who is probably one of the most beautiful girls I've seen in my life. We chatted and it was all good. Later when everyone went home we talked over facebook, it was all good. She thanked me for handling a situation of which I am not going to go into for many reasons.

    Then a few days later I try to talk and it's the most basic shit ever.

    Like I say "hey how are you doing?" and she's like "fine" then goes offline. Wtf?

    I've tried again since then but it's no use. FML
     
  5. Nothing in this world, I mean nothing, pisses off a female more than when you ignore her.

    Stay strong. You'll see.
     
  6. I always use the try twice then dip rule. I know where you're coming from in this situation, just keep on living don't get hung up over her when you only talked to her for 10 mins.
     
  7. Yummybud part 2?
     
  8. Thanks for the advice guys...as for the yummbud part 2, I have no idea what that means... :p
     
  9. he's just another poster on these forums that overthinks to the point where all common sense goes out the window ;)
     
  10. 1. you're not the most important thing to her (why would you expect her to look at you every time you crossed paths?)
    2. a 10 minute conversation doesn't show that she loves you, but obviously if you kept her interest, the next step is to ask for her number



    What I'm sayin is you're trippin... You're over thinking it.
     
  11. maybe she likes you and doesn't want to seem too available
    maybe she likes you and was feeling shy
    maybe she just was just busy talking to her friend
    maybe she decided that she didn't like you after talking to you for 10 mins.
    or something I haven't even thought of.
     

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