Is it still considered intimate, or not so much anymore? I met this guy a while back, he smokes a lot, I thought he was really cute but didn't have any reason to think he was into me, except that he offered me a shotgun. At first he said "oh I'll give you a shotgun sometime", and then the first time we smoked together nothing happened, then when we were out he said "oh shit I forgot to give you a shotgun". Second time, we did it twice. Our lips touched on the second one and I was happy about it but played cool- I didn't want to read into it too much. I spent HOURS hanging out with this guy- I'm talking 6, 7, 8 hours at a time- and we got along really well, but he just seems like a really chill guy and I have a feeling he'd do that with anyone he got along with. Shortly after we met he went out of town and won't be back for a couple months. I paid him a lot of attention at first and even mailed him a gift, but lately I've tried to back off and I haven't been completely forthcoming about my feelings because I'm terrified of rejection. I felt like I really connected with this dude, but all I've got to go on is the fact that our lips touched while we were smoking. Which I'm assuming could mean a lot, or nothing, right? I dunno, boys, will you do that with a girl you're not at all attracted to?