okay, any advice would be grrrreat. i work with a girl. we have been getting close. i'd say we have an awesome back and forth. we can really make each other laugh, and we both smoke. she tells almost everyone we're "bestfriends" although she uses this term with many people. i like her, alot. and i think she knows this, but "seems" to just want friendship. i want to be her friend too, but it's really kind of making me depressed because of the whole liking her thing. will telling her i like her damage a potential friendship between us? is it even worth being her friend if i'm depressed about not being able to actually be with her, even if i realllly need a friend right now? AHHHH!!!!!