I recently came into a settlement once I came of age. Just hit me about some things. Way way back, my siblings, mentioned this to a friend of theirs. I didn't know this, and to tell you the truth if I was there she would not have said it. So she knew not to speak of it. I didn't know about this. I am the type of person, who can read people, and situations. So one day I met this guy, and he mentioned to me about some money, and money of mine, i was puzzled how he heard. So I questioned and questioned. Came out he was chillin at this one house with some people while my sister said it. So fuck, a vast amount of people know some secret shit. Now its gotten around, to some of my friends. To the point where I have 0 trust, I don't know who the fuck to trust now. Things get weirder and weirder. I have this other buddy, known him for some time. I go over to chill at his drug dealers house, with him. Were smoking sweets, I just bought an ounce, my buddys in the apt with his guy, and im sittin outside with his guys roomate. Now my friends guy, I know hes intelligent like i am. hes not stupid. but his roomate on the porch outside says "so what you got a settlement or what?" im high as fuck at this point, and I stop puzzled for a second, just let it pass like its nothing and reply, "yeah." This tripped me the fuck out. Because why the fuck, would my buddy, who i never spoke to about the money (he must have found out from the other group of kids that i don't associate with that have older siblings that have younger siblings that know my sister, is a weird circle of everyone knows everyone due to sisters and brothers of all ages/)... to get back, why would he mention anything to these guys. What I am saying is... the dealer he never mentioned my money, except the stupid roomate brought it up out of no where. Now this dude, I have gotten cool with him, but were not friends, and I am keeping it that way. I buy from him, hes legit, but shit could turn bad. I currently live at home with my family, but my other side of the family no longer talks to me since i received this money. They feel like I don't want them and a whole lot of other shit. Its bad!!! Like this money has turned some of my closest family members bad and not talking to me, they teamed up and told my 90 year old grandma lies which hurts me in return. I don't know who to trust around me. I am thinking of just packing up and moving the fuck out and starting my life somewhere. This money, is not enough for me to live off forever. But enough to pay for college, a apt, already paid off a decent car. I just don't know what to do. Some people seem more and more sketch. Like I have friends right now, that know probably soon i am going to get another amount of money. WTF do I do? If I tell my parents that my sister spread rumors, it won't do anything. My mom already gossips about stuff to my sisters. She found a male erection pill sample in my dresser and fucking told my sisters i had a small dick, which in return got back to my gf and a bunch of kids on a bus which my loud ass fucking sister supposedly said all this. Same one who told a bunch of people I have a lot of money coming my way (just got actually). Kids are pretty much like their parents, and my mom is a talking gossip to some people. Because what I have realized, its like if there is nothing to talking about, personal shit comes up to play. So I am sure my sister is doing the exact fucking same. I can see it and sense it. Being why my sister would talk about my money. WHY THE FUCK DOES IT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH HER. IT LITERALLY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HER AT ALL. So here are some points i want to state: *money has nothing to do with anyone but me, so there should be nothing with no one about anything. why im so pissed! *sister spread a huge secret amongst some peers, which I don't know who the fuck it got to. *now some of my closest friends are seeming sketchy. as I said, I read people, and I can sense shit. *friends know about money *fucking girlfriend knows about this money!!! its sooo horrible, its like everytime i go buy shit its like im spending it all on me, in reality, its my money, so if i go buy a ounce of weed, she shouldn't fucking care. i shut her up with a $400 diamond necklace from jareds, but still i feel that when we go out to eat and I dont offer to pay for every meal, it gets to her that this kids got money yet he doesn't pay for me. Because I tell you, I am not going to pay for some 17 year old bitch's food when she wants me to almost hangout daily and that also includes me usually eating which i have to be courteous and feed her, but i cant do that shit every day! IDK what to do, I really think ultimately, I need to move the fuck away or something with some other relative that is away from these people here. One friend told me in a convo once, he never had more then 600 to his name, and more recently told me he would kill someone just to see if he could get away with it because he thinks he could. Also some of these kids I know, are getting in to powder, and trying other stuff that are more intense. Now this one kid, I think he thinks I am getting some money. So this is another dude never mentioned above, his dealer is pretty legit. But got sketchy the other night. He came over, and asked some sketchy questions while we were high. And then out of no where asks if I want to buy a qp for a 1000, which in my area is a steal more then a hookup almost... like a setup. Like he never hooks up more then a half, so now hes talking a qp out of no where? IDK
That sounds pretty rough man and it kinda sounds like the girl is using you all you can do is try to stay low key, and don't tell anyone anything maybe try to surround yourself with some more trustworthy people if possible
Your sister is really nosey she shudnt have any business about your money, i think you should try and find another relative to live with and get away from the area, since like you said people are finding out about your money n seems like they are attempting to set u up, but yeah keep on the down low
I'd be getting the fuck away from there man! You got the right idea, starting up somewhere else. It's not worth it when you can't trust anyone, and they give you no reasons to change that.
So, I read through, and it seems that you have already surrounded yourself with narcissistic people. Some only want money, some only want material possessions, some are scheeming and plotting, yet very very few actually want your companionship. It's obvious that you have 0 future wherever you are currently living. In life, it's best to surround yourself with as little sketch people as possible, while retaining a decent amount of true homies, who would be there whether you had the money or not. My advise is to move somewhere new, start fresh where nobody knows you. Go to the gym or the club or some other public facility where you know you will meet a stoner. Meet up with some people and enjoy life. Oh, and send me a check for $1,000, as this advise is charged by the minute Another thing, don't get too caught up in having that money, because it will be gone alot quicker than you think. Oh yeah, and smoke alot of medical quality herb
Go back to acting the way you did before you came into the money. Tell folks you are saving the cash for college and/or the future. You had to cut yourself off from the money because you were dipping into it too much. Before long they will forget about it. Or keep throwing cash around and watch the vultures circle.
Thing is, I never threw the money around. So its super sketch how "money" is brought up sometimes. Also, the two closest friends that I had, one being this guy I met and he was chill, but he is a bit younger and recently started to do his own stuff, and I feel like he may be parting way but setting me up. The other friend, he is a true friend, he is just going through a really stressful sistuation. But in all reality, once trust is lost with someone, its gone. As for the girl, yeah, she aleady seems materialistic and I am to the point that if I don't dump this bitch soon she will be with me forever seeing as I am about that age where shit like that sticks. Must I note, I am also out of high school. I didn't get all A's, but I slid by with C's and B's. And this settlement, was something that was already setup before I could talk, it was setup for me and only me. No one else. So the problems with family members sucks so bad. I litterally cry in tears some times. Everytime I hangout with friends, I feel used somewhat. It's gotten to the point where when I drive thru taco bell with a friend after smoking him out on a few med grade droski blunts, if a friend asks if can get them or spot them, i say no. Because i've started to feel used. Except here comes into play "the friend", their someone you help in need, but i have felt so fucking used I usually tell people I really don't have the money on me. I am not on here to act like some kid whose loaded. People really think money is all wonderful. You soon realize it isn't when your in a position like me, where YOUR real blood relatives stop all communication with you, no more cards on holidays like that past ones, nothing. They sent me gifts all the way up until I turned of age to get this money. No they don't speak to me. I am loosing friends that I used to trust, the new ones where I live, I don't know if they know me already or what is going on so I don't like to trust anyone. Its driving me nuts, so what citys have cheap apts and shit...
Ok, you got two options. Either grow some fucking balls and say no to the people asking for money in one form or another so you could live your life with a nice chunk of cash, or you can give into their desires and lose everything in a couple of years. Your call.
ah sounds like your in quite a pickle. however id rather be in your situation with a lot of money and an oz whenever i want. if i was u id move the fuck out or just start hanging around different kids. dude if you dont constantly carry cash then u have no worrys lol. but yeah i wouldnt hang around any dealers or do any big deals with all the kids you are right now. find a new dealer that is in no way connected to anyone your friends with, and buy from him from then on. and dont tell anyone who u get from. and u gotta straighten your bitch sister out too