i'm late, blades. really late. and i'm freaking outt. for real. i'm just a baby myself, i'm so stressin right now. edit: lets make this a discussion. ladies, if you were preggers would you still smoke bud? guys, if your girl was knocked up would you encourage her to stop?
i wouldn't get an abortion. i never used to be against it, but i read this thing that said "abortion doesn't make you unpregnant, it just makes you the mother of a dead child." and it got to me i guess. never really thought it was for me, but then i never really thought i'd get pregnant. really? my friend smoked weed while pregnant and she has the happiest healthiest smartest baby i know. not saying i would
no? lol. financially and all i can take care of this baby. it's stupid to kill it when it will have a perfectly happy life.
How old are you? You have absolutely no idea what it takes financially, mentally, and physically to raise a child.
If a "thing" with a slogan on it is all it takes to alter your views on serious subjects then you are absolutely not ready to be a mother. Plus you look like you're maybe 15 from the pics you posted in some other thread so I highly doubt you're as financially secure as you say. That's not for you to decide. Do some fucking research and go take a pregnancy test. And go take a fucking Sex ED class while you're at it. God, people like you make me sick.
i'm 18. will be 19 by the time it's here. and that's not all it took to change my mind, lol, i was never against it but i always thought if i got pregnant it wouldn't be for me. i just never thought i would get pregnant. who ever does? sorry i make you sick, shame that it's people like me who make you sick when there are people out there who should really make you ill. if teenage moms make you sick maybe it's not me with the problem d:
i believe you. i'm 18. but there are plenty of people in my life willing to offer me mental, emotional, and even financial support if i need it.
If you are even considering smoking while pregnant you should obviously have an abortion. Do not smoke or take any intoxicants while pregnant. Alcohol, tobacco, thc, caffine, these are all things that will have some kind of effect on your baby if you consume them while pregnant. Some people have done all these and more, and yes the baby turned out fine but not as good as they could have. The world is already overpopulated, there are already way way too many stupid people out there. Its easy to make another one and it is a huge huge commitment to keep it, why not wait until you are in the right situation in life to have a baby. Just because you fucked up and the condom broke does not mean you should bring a child into this world when you are not ready to raise it to the best of your abilities. Idk how old you are but use your freakin head, don't you want to be able to smoke buds and sleep in until noon, or go pursue a vacation or job you hear about? These things all become a hell of a lot harder when you have a kid to look after.
i haven't smoked in ages and i honestly don't mind. it wouldn't be a reg thing. and i didn't say i would. i asked for opinions about it. my situation is fine and i could take complete care of a baby. i know it would be hard. but i'm one to own up to my mistakes, and if i had this baby i would sacrifice everything i had for it. i'm fine with not smoking. fine with not sleeping. fine with not partying. fine with no dream vacations, fine with everything that comes with it. i'd willingly and happily give up everything in my life for the life of this baby. k?
To me you sound like you know what you're doing and nobodies perfect so i dont know why people are hating on you, good luck and all the best to you and your child.
Well to me she sounds like a confused little child who is making a massive mistake and closing off huge future avenues in her life for no reason at all. But whatever. I'M OUT!
doesn't everyone close off future avenues in their life when they get pregnant, no matter how old they are? and my reason is that i value human life, sooorrry.