Why is that, when a guy tries to warn a girl of the guy she wants to get with, she doesn't listen? (This isn't trying to be the "nice guy", just generally looking out for somebody.) But when it blows up in her face, she's crying and all the that stuff, but the question is: wasn't she expecting that? That person looking our for her clearly told her he's NO GOOD and that he's basically going to end up fucking her over. Sometimes, guys give advice, just to simply give advice. Not to recieve anything out of it or hold it against you.