Everyone is a little insecure, some way more than others, but many people see other people's doubts and ridicule regarding themselves as a good way to motivate them. If someone stutters a little, and everyone gives him shit for it, calls him names, the general message being "you're a stuttering little bitch and everything you'll attempt will fail because of it and you will never overcome it", he's more determined to overcome it, because it's natural to take self-criticism to heart, but it's hard to believe it when someone who hardly knows you criticizes you. You know you better than anyone, how dare someone else say you can't do something? I'm not saying it's healthy but if it motivates people to work on stuff that's bothering them, I don't see how it's worse than motivation from within.
[quote name='"tastytrichomes"'] well, the fact that 90% of the world hates nicki minaj never made her any better[/quote] Hahhahahhahahhahahha!
Good can come from hate. I hate feeling pain, so I try my best not to get hurt. People don't "need" haters to motivate them, but haters can serve as motivation. Just knowin that somebody out there wants to see you fall flat on your face could give you that extra oomph to do whatever it is you wanna do. Whether you actually just wanna prove a person wrong, or if you wanna do what you wanna do while proving them wrong in the process, hate can serve as fuel.
If the goal is to motivate people then loving them goes a lot further than hating them. Occasionally someone has had enough of being hated upon and brings upon the great changes that we were so desperate to see in them that we felt the need to hate, thus justifying the hatred. Whose to say that the changes that we were so desperate to see in these people wouldn't have come sooner through love? For everyone who 'changes', 99 go through the emotions of being hated upon. They will then go on to find someone weaker than them and carry on the hating cycle. While the original hater will find something different to hate about. Haters...are deeply insecure about themselves, and so they create an over inflated ego personality in the hope that such personality gets the attention their inner self craves. The bigger the hater the more damaged their inner self is. Take the stutter. What makes you so arrogant to think that he/she doesn't want to overcome it? What makes you so ignorant to think that hating is the best method to overcome it? Obviously a trained psychologist... When you stop and think about it, hating someone is never justifiable. Good can come from hate after a long struggle, but good always comes from good without that struggle.
It's given her more publicity and, in turn, more money and fame. Would you really care about your musical quality in that situation? I sure as hell wouldn't.
This seems to be a egocentric problem, some people hate for no ideal reason or for trivial reasons. I don't really hate no one, at the end of the day I focus on myself and helping others.
Hypothetical situation: I hate Mitt Romney, so I kill him. Mitt Romney is now dead. Much good has come of this.
Because of his character, his policies, the way he disregards people and not listening from what they want, using deception so he can rank up votes, etc. Politicians man., its easy to see to see their strategy.