not sure what to do

If you're 18, why don't you just move out or something if it's that big of a deal? Hard to think that an adult would get grounded...

 

i had the same situation. after i got caught my mom would check my phone while i was sleeping, go threw my room while i was at school, and she somehow got on my facebook. After a while she kinda just stopped lol. All you can do is build the trust back up by not getting caught. Or try to educate them on the benefits of weed?

 

My parents found out and they grounded me for life, but of course going to a public school I could find my stuff fairly easily still being grounded. Whats the worse they could do if you failed again? I have no clue. Anyways, I kept smoking when they found out an to be completely honest toked it in my room with them down stairs haha. Do what you feel is right, smoking isn't a necessity in life.

 

Show them the movie The Union because if they're reacting like that they probably don't know shit about marijuana.

 

Well if he wants to stay in their house, he would have to stick to their rules. I know I would rather have someone else pay the bills. Not to mention the fact that I would basically be turning my back on my entire family if I moved out. In my case, I know my mom wouldn't even want to look at me if I did that.

 

You have to man up. If you truely love smoking weed then you will be able to. You will find a way to. Unless they see a bad change in you, and weed is harming you or your an im-mature kid.

 

Just get better at hiding it, continue smoking. On the drug tests, if they don't watch you, for the little homemade ones you can just piss into it a little bit and do the rest with water and it will show as a pass. Those are the EASIEST to pass.

 

When I showed my mom that video, all she said was that it was stoners talking good about getting stoned.

 

Its impossible to get grounded by your parents if your over 18. That would be called kidnapping not grounding. Once your 18 parents have zero control over you as far as the law says. So next time your parents say you cant do somthing either move out or call the cops on them for molesting you. That or your under 18 and youve just been caught out because your child eyes are not allowed to read these boards.

 

This is what you should do!

Stay clean for about 3 weeks...DETOX.
After you detox for 3 weeks piss 2 or three regular sized water bottles full of clean piss.
Then roll up a j and smoke...
Always keep it in ur inner thigh duck taped...Maybe 45minutes every night before your parents get home from work or are goin to get home from somedin...That way its warm and if they test u when they get home...UR CLEAN. Hope this helps thats actually what im currently doin as im in the same situation as you! Keep Tokin'

 

doing that wouldn't even be worth the risk... thats just too much of a hassle haha If you actually are 18 ( cus it doesn't sound like you are sorry) you should just tell them straight up that they have no rights treating you like a little child, tell them that you understand that your living under their roof but if they don't accept you smoking marjuana (even outside the house) then you will move out because you don't like being treated like a little bitch. If they say fine move out... dont back out because 99% its the parents that want you back....but honestly its not really worth it unless your parents are 2 strict

 

If it were me, I would just tell them that I am an adult, and I can make my own decisions.

 

Wow, here's a new thread topic - oh wait NOT.

For every kid who gets caught by parents, I say the same mantra:

1) Move out you're 18, time to leave the parent's nest.

2) If you can't move out, STOP SMOKING IN YOUR PARENTS HOUSE WITHOUT THEIR PERMISSION.

If you can't do 1 or 2, then you're SOL.

 

yup since option 1 isnt a choice for most people (including myself)
just follow option 2, it works very well (get off the dope you damn hippies and get a real job!! lol)

 

Wow. If you live in your parents house, without paying rent, they have control over what you do. Just because your 18 doesn't mean you can do whatever the fuck you want. It's still their house, their rules.

 

i didnt know how to tell that guy about how i or we cant do whatever we want in our parents house just cus were 18+, thank you for doing it

 

you, sir, are an idiot.

[Can't be calling members idiots. Manage to give an opinion without the insults, please. -FW]


unless he pays for rent, they can still tell him what to do.



ahh, hitman beat me to it... but whatever

 

sorry, we can't make this decision for you it's your life. I think the only advice I can offer is that you already know the answer.
"advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer."
Your parents can't be much worse than mine

 

Well if you're already grounded, I don't see why you don't just keep toking. Just make sure you get good grades man. Normally parents stop caring if you make those grades count.