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Not being Generous with weed

Discussion in 'Marijuana Consumption Q&A' started by Variant, Jun 23, 2013.

  1. I have a problem thats been bothering me for quite a while, long story short, I always burn my older brother up without asking any favors or w.e, but every time I ask him to burn me up he always asks for favors like to clean his car, his room, etc...  Its really pissing me off because i'm really generous with my weed and my older brother is not.

     
  2. Tell your brother to blaze you up a fat J or you're not smoking any more of your stash with him.
     
  3. This
     
  4. Yea that is unfair, but bigger brothers tend to do things like that.  I would just take turns burning each other out.  That shits gotta stop! lol
     
  5. Quit smoking with him.
     
  6. Why do you do that then? Why keep letting it happen?
     
  7. What would you guys suggest me do? the times I do have bud My brother would often ask me for a smoke up & I would say yes, but when I run out of bud and he picks up more he only smokes me up sometimes when I smoke him up ALL THE TIME >.<"
     
  8. I'm 20 , my older brother is 21.
     
  9. i dont understand why this is so difficult lol
     
    just dont give him any weed??
     
  10. I mean, this is pretty simple to solve.
     
    Either stop giving him weed or call him out on the fact that you let him bum weed from you and don't ask anything in return for it.
     
    Get a piece of paper and note down all the times you give him weed, and all the time you get it from him.
     
  11. Someone doesn't know how to use common sense. We live in a world were ppl can't think for themselves and are forced to go to the internet.....
     
  12. I did call him out on it actually, his response was like " stop comparing me to you". Ever since he started this I've secretly stole some of his  stash because hes being a huge douche about it. is it justifiable? 
     
  13. Almost nothing justifies stealing someone elses shit.
     
    Just stop giving him weed.  Period.  Your brother sounds like a complete douche - but that's not a reason to steal from him.
     
  14. Easy just let him smoke his own weed. Seems to be taking you for a mug! Older brother or not. Or just put it to him and say its not about favours and you dont ask for anything in return.. job done fellow toker...
     
  15. me and my older brother always hook each other up because we've both been there before and knows we'll have each other back before too long, always been a good system

    as for this situation, stop hookin him up and just smoke your own stuff and if he ever asks just say it back to him "stop compairing me to you, i have weed, you don't imma go get high"
     
  16. I know it stinks because you want to enjoy smoking with him socially when you have the herb, you sound like a good kid. :) But for a while, don't offer. And then, ask him to do some favors for you, the next time you're smoking on your own and he wants to get in on it. When he acts surprised, just say "Oh, I was just trying to follow your lead. See, I can't really remember the last time you smoked me out without requesting a favor in return. It's too bad because I really liked sharing with you, just for the sake of sharing and hanging out for a few minutes, but after a while, I figured that's just not how you like to smoke so I should start doing the same thing you do".
     
     
    *Read a little further....*
     
     
     Well the 'good kid' remark doesn't seem to hold up if you're stealing from him in retribution! Why not just stop sharing your stuff. You made the call to share with him in the first place, he had a chance to do the same in return but didn't, this does NOT mean that you're owed anything.
     
     You offered to share your stash. When you offer something, if you want to live a happy, stress-free life, you can't -expect anything- in return. You can hope, but assuming you WILL be repaid for every little thing you do, doesn't really make you any better than your brother, now does it!  You offered to share. And now, you're stealing to make up for it. You can't really compare or justify those two acts alongside one another, I'm afraid. :eek:
     
  17. So much drama over weed :/ , is it honestly worth getting mad over or do I have every reason to be upset? I feel like i've done nothing wrong because i'm really generous with my weed & its not the other way around.
     
  18. What did you say for him to say that?

    Should say : If your gunna make me do shit everytime you smoke me up then im just gunna smoke by myself from now on.

    Just because he's a douche doesnt mean you can be a douche and steal his shit.

    Its partially your fault too because you play into the shit. Stop if it bugs you so much. Man im 20 too but Id never put up with stupid shit like that.
     
  19.  
    You're the one who came here and said you have a problem that's been bothering you for a while.  Frankly, we don't give a shit if you keep giving your brother weed, or if you don't, we're just giving you suggestions on ways to solve your problem.
     
    You do have a reason to be upset, just because he's your older brother doesn't mean he can take advantage of you.  Man up and solve your problem with one of the ways that we've listed.  Or just keep on going on with what you're doing now if it's not really that big of a problem.
     

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