Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by xsmallheartx, May 22, 2010.

  1. Hi,

    So, I've never been laid, I've kinda had the chance but shit always goes bad. And where I am at now, I hardly know that many girls. I haven't had a girlfriend since years and it's kinda getting to the stage where I am quite lonely. And scared to some degree since I would assume the person would have had sex before. I am 19, small and skinny which makes me look young, so it is hard to find a girls that are into me. I have long hair as well which covers up my sideburns which doesn't help. Including my interests I am quite different, I am pretty deep enjoy philosophy big discussions etc.

    But the thing is...

    I always wanted my first time to be with someone I loved but at the same time I really want to. 'express myself passionately'

    I have been viewing porn more and more so recently and I feel like maybe I should just hook up with someone instead of watching heaps of it.

    I have been waiting for an amazing girl for most of my life, so I always think, well I've gone this far I may as well wait. But at the same time, my hormone infused self is like, just find a slut and do it.

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  2. Nice but over rated. Not to sound like a tool but at your age it's better to get laid without love than not get laid at all. Go have some fun. You have time to fall in love later.
  3. Thanks for the advice man.
  4. I know how you feel, OP. I'm 20, still a virgin, never had a relationship, but I don't want to just get rid of my virginity for no reason. From what I hear, it isn't as big a deal as we make it out to be though, and I'm starting to believe that.

    My advice to you is to think it over for a little bit, and find out what you want to do. Make sure that this decision is yours, that you aren't doing this b/c it's what society or your friends want/expect you to do. It would suck if you did it and regretted it...I've heard too many stories of people that regretted their first times. You'll figure out what you want to do, though. We all do. :p

    I would also say that if you just want to have sex, no romantic relationship involved, at least do it w/someone that is really caring and gentle, and someone that understands your situation and will "guide" you, so to speak. It will make the experience a lot better.
  5. internet dating?
    or going out more.
    or places were people share common interest as you.
    o you dont feel as weird.
    be nice!
    n a lil porn never hurt nobody

  6. I will aim for this! mad idea :hello:
  7. Just go to the bar get crunk and lay some game on some chicks. I found the best way to get laid is to make your intentions clear. Also play a little hard to get. Girls love a challenge. Try and be mysterious. Also have the "I don't give a fuck about you" attitude to make it seem like you can get laid easily from other chicks.
  8. Haha, glad I could help! Good luck, and I hope you have a great time. :D

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