My friends girlfriend is a fucking asshole. We just sat down to have a sesh. And she called him and told him he couldn't smoke anymore cause she quit. What. The. Fuck. Can we get some stories about significant others who didn't enjoy Mary as much as we do? Just to make me laugh
my ex used to be the same...pissed me the fuck off always tryin to get me to cut back and stop...kicked that bitch out quick..
haha I had a girl like his. She'd go between smoking with me and hating it. she was always saying shit like "how can we be in a relationship if you won't make any compromise for me etc etc". Just like bitch how can we be in a relationship if you don't want me doing what I want.
My girl doesn't smoke anymore but doesn't care if i do if im not around her She's also never tried telling me i couldn't do it because she doesn't or doesn't like it. She knows ill end the relationship over that controlling shit. The only thing shes ever said to that is drinking and driving after she lost a good friend to a crash and i honestly can say i wont do that again. My girl understands im a stoner and doesnt care or have objections to it as long as i dont blaze around her or bring drugs or paraphernalia in the car with her. Since she cant have a drug charge on her record since shell be kicked out of her college and major if she does and i respect that and can live with it.
Hahaha I wouldn't date a girl who didn't. I live with my girlfriend and she fiends harder than me sometimes haha.
my girl doesnt blaze but doesnt really care that i do, but she uses it against me sometimes. when she drinks she gets way too drunk and acts like an idiot, and when i call her out on that her excuse is always well you blaze a lot more than i drink. ya because i can fucking handle my shit bro.
There's this hot little number whom I'm trying to get inside the pants of. She smokes too and it's always great times smoking with her.
my friend and his girlfriend were cleaning/doing laundry and when we sat down to have a sesh she said "if you smoke, I'm done cleaning". Even though she has cleaned for him 20+ times without him even getting off the couch and has no problem with smoking. She just used what leverage she had to get him to not toke..how fucked up.
Oh my god. My boyfriend tells me everyday: "Your so stupid for smoking. i will never do that. I want to be a cop, and when that happens you will have to quit." We have been together 4 years. We got together when we were so young and now we are adults and it sucks because we both want different things in life.
^^ go your way live your life don't compromise your future to sasve a relationship. Also my girl used to be scared of me tokin and now she loves it
Since I've been smoking, any girlfriend I have smokes. I pretty much need a girl to smoke with me otherwise it'd be weird, it's a special bond for me.
A compromise is when two parties come to mutually agreeable terms they can both live with to improve a conflicting situation. When somebody tells you they want to ‘compromise' but only expect you to change, then they are actually asking you to make a concession. Compromise (Good): SO: I've decided to quit smoking so it isn't something we can do anymore. I'd like you to quit, too. You: I support your decision to stop smoking, and I understand that we will not be able to share this activity any longer. However, I still enjoy it. I can compromise by not smoking when we are together, but I still want to enjoy it from time to time. SO: Thank you for respecting me and our relationship like this. I understand that you are still your own person and need your own space, so I can live with that. You: You're the bees knees! Concession (Bad): SO: I don't like smoking anymore, so you can't smoke either. You: The door is that way, bitch/bastard. Cops: We received a tip that you are in possession of controlled substances and prohibited paraphernalia. Cell mate: I'm going to call you Lauren. Strive to cultivate healthy relationships based on mutual respect and equality, including the ability to compromise with one another. The alternative is unhealthy and often doomed to combative posturing. Peace.
I think as long as the boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't impede on your smoking, and you respect them by not smoking in their direct vicinity (or not having it on you when you travel in their car, whatever their stipulations are) then I don't see why not. I don't smoke anymore but that doesn't mean I mind if somebody smokes, I just don't want them smoking in my car or in my apartment... and I'm a little sketchy about letting people bring weed into my car because I've been pulled over and I've had friends try to "stash" the weed in my car, which is a total dick move, more than once.
I used to date this girl in highschool who seriously wouldn't stop smoking until she couldnt function. But she wouldn't smoke for like 3 or 4 weeks at a time. So every now and then she'd come over to my house and we would blaze like 3/4 ounce, bang, she'd fall asleep and I would watch tv.
[quote name='"BakedRach"']Oh my god. My boyfriend tells me everyday: "Your so stupid for smoking. i will never do that. I want to be a cop, and when that happens you will have to quit." We have been together 4 years. We got together when we were so young and now we are adults and it sucks because we both want different things in life.[/quote] Babe ur a wild horse and hes trying to tame you. Fuck alllll dat
The girls who I chilled with mostly smoke bud and besides there's a lot of stoner girls through out the country so I got no problem.
[quote name='"potchocolate"'] Just tell him to stop being a little bitch.[/quote] I would, but I do really like him... Except for that part about him. Plus there's not many gay guys where I am so he's my only source for sex hahahaha