Never meeting girls.

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by thatrooper515, Mar 27, 2013.

  1. Hey guys I just wanted to get some advice on my situation. I work alot. Like basically sun up to sun down 6 days a week. How do I meet people this way. I never go out. And spend every night at home alone. On Sunday's Im always off but there is still work to do, and when theres not I go shooting with some freinds.
    Is there hope? What girl wants a guy who works all day every day just to on see him a few hours a night. How would I even meet a girl? I'd say Im preety good looking, preety quite and shy buy any girl who has gotten to know me has fallen in love with me. Just wait I guess? Let me know what y'all think.
     
  2. Find a girl with as good of a work ethic as you? Maybe in your industry? Nobody gets by in life without working hard. You could also try going out, maybe after work some night. Or on your day off for a bit. Not sure what's around you but you could go out for drinks, go to some café for coffee, go to the park, the beach, anywhere pretty much. Talk to more strangers...even if you don't fall in love with them, you can have good conversation. Have some friends that work less than you do introduce you to some girls. Good luck
     
  3. Start going out with your friends other places instead of shooting?
    Try getting them to go out to clubs, bars, even just dinner. Are your friends single or taken? If they are taken, ask them if their girls/wives know any one they can set you up with and double date with.

    And you always try online dating sites. Plenty of good sites out there, and it's a pretty common way for people to meet each other these days.
     
  4. I'd recommend not looking to meet potential lady friends in bars/nightclubs and other places of that sort. While it is very much possible to meet a nice woman there...odds are probably not. Also if you don't mind me asking what job requires you to work that much year round?
     

  5. No way I'd find a girl in my line of work. Don't think IV ever seen one aside from some customers. I do need to overall talk to strangers, I guess you could say Im anti social.


    Yea I really only got like 3-4 real freinds. Two are married, one is a man whore and the rest are hermits like me. That Internet dating seems neat may look in to that.


    Landscaping,contract labor and farm work. I only work that much about 8-9 months a year but but still work a good bit during winter. About a reg 40hr work week during the winter.
     
  6. Well, you can use your work load, anti-socialism, lack of friends all as excuses why you can't get a girl. OR you can see them as challenges to overcome. You have to make a decision as what you want and then make it happen.
     
  7. Quit your job.
     
  8. Damn you must be making bank with those hours...my advice to you is to work as much as possible buy yourself a slick ride and meet women later in life haha
     

  9. Exactly. I made this thread knowing what I need to do. Guess I was honestly looking for pity or something. Pathetic I know. Just wanted some reassurance as well.

    naw man I make fucking bank.

    I live in Texas and have 2 very nice 3/4 ton truck. Round here that's like a bently or something. not to mention a soon to be lifted and off road monster of a jeep. Seriously in texas guys who never pull a thing in their life buy a 3/4 truck that barley gets over 10mpg cause they are supposed to drop panties. I also live in a small farm town so not too many girls round here. And the ones that are have kids. Shallow I know but I ain't looking for a ready built family. I like to sulk over how stupid I was, and fucked up with my exes who are now married and happy. That coulda been me. Damm spilling my guts on a forum while taking a shit. Where's my life at lol.
    I have to quit smoking weed for a while now. Maybe that's the push I need to get out and met women. Been smoking basically daily since I was 13 and I'm 19 now. I can hope. Thanks guys, maybe I'll get my shit together.
     
  10. I just feel like finding a mate is all that's missing in my life. I feel like my generation is full of party going sluts with dicks in their mouths and waiting for the next bottle to empty. I'm different, consider myself a very smart introspective and introverted individual. I don't feel I'll ever meet a woman who appreciates me and my flaws for the man I am. I meet nothing but air headed cum buckets. Maybe I'm an ass but I feel all the good girls are taken or living under a rock.
     
  11. Move to Canada, aren't half the woman in texas just absolutely huge anyways?

    I mean cum buckets
     
  12. Are you looking for a relationship or just some a little fun. We could always send some hookers to your house
     

  13. Bring em on!!! (in joe from family guys voices). I may look into some escort services. Backpage seems promising. Maybe I'll do some preety woman shit and just pay one to live with me,cook talk etc…
     
  14. Right on brother. You better invite me if more than 2 come!!!
     
  15. thatrooper515,

    I'm in a similar situation to you. I'm a bit older though. So I say make the good money while you can because it will make your future relationship much better/easier and you will have more time for your girl. I think if you get to 40 single I'd get mildly worried but before then, you can pretty much get girls as young as 21.. You want to get the best option possible, so you don't end up divorced at 40. Better to hit 40 single and make it stick the first time. So you need to stay fit and healthy in the meantime.
     

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