I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 11 months now, and it's getting a little stale. She has very bad depression and anxiety, just like me lol, and I'm afraid her depression might go crazy if I break up with her... Because I know depression sucks, a lot! That's not even the worst part yet! The girl I had such a crush on in like Jr High, is really flirting with me, and she lives legit three houses away from me. She is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen, not to be cheesy or anything, but wow. I always smoke with her, I'm actually gonna smoke her up in a couple hours lol. She even came to my house to "watch a movie", and she just kept hinting at sex and shit. Like she wants me! I have so much going on in my life, and with this being added to it sucks! Any advice or input would be a life saver, I really don't know who to even talk to about this! I'm gonna go smoke a bowl or two and see if I can figure this shit out.
I'm in a relationship with a depressed gf.. And that shit lasts 8 years already... Just listen to my advise man! RUN!!! Do what or who makes u happy!!! Happiness is the most important thing! If u feel happy with that girl- go for it! Don't mind that she lives 3h away, follow your heart! If u won't, you gonna remember my words in a few years and have a deep regret for the missed opportunity... Good luck brotha
I was with my gf for 11 months until things got stale. Break ups not easy bud but if u think it's right do it. You can't stay together just for her sake that's unhealthy. Again, breaking ups gonna suck but sometimes it's just gotta happen
Cartman thank you, I really am thinking. I have had so many good times with my gf, but also I'm starting to like the other girl again, it's such a childish thing, I'm fully aware, it's just kinda gettiing me stressed, and when I get stressed, my anxiety gets REAL bad, and sometimes I will get a little depression. (Nothing a little weed can't fix...) Twitchydude, I wouldn't say I'm immature, just very confused on this. I USED to have a very strong emotional connection with her, but I'm just kinda loosing it...
It just depends on whether you feel you "like" the girl you're with, or if you "love" her. If you're in highschool, 11 months isn't much.. you've both probably fucked other people. Lets be real, most rational people don't take an 11 month highschool relationship very seriously anyway. You know you're gonna end up broken up eventually anyway. Go with your gut, man.. Life is about being happy in the moment. If your neighbor crush is what's making you happy at the moment, then jump on it.
But did u think of a reason for ur depression? Maybe she is that reason? Like, I mean I was a happy guy before I met my gf, but now after 8 years I just realise that she is dragging me down with her... Lasted 8 years thinking about those good times we had... But now I realize that all the BAD times outweighs the good times.. BIG TIME
man i feel you. i was in the same such for 3 months, and getting out of it was literally a life changing experience. I met Lucy for the first time and just fucking woke up and realized i was miserable and needed change and happiness, and as soon as the initial shock of like, making her cry and the fear of her killing herself wore off, It was a total rebirth dude. A counterpoint to that is now I'm totally alone in a new place and struggling with loneliness, but i just met a cute ass dready girl so things are looking up! Just do it my man, your happiness is literally the most important thing in your world, not mine or hers, but yours. PS I'm sooooo baked right now i can't believe i just gave advice
I think that it would be a rebirth dude, and I just smoked with her, she was like wrestling me and giggling and shit, but didn't do anything. I feel more happy around her than my girlfriend now... But time will tell!
Just think of it this way, the sooner you break things off with your old girl, the sooner you can get things going with this new one.