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need relationship advice and help dilema

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by Toker4L2f0, Jan 28, 2010.

  1. Ok so i have a bit of a dilema i been dating this new girl now for about 4 months or so things are tight we get a long shes very attached to me and i also like her but probably not as much as she likes me if you know what i mean.

    Now today at work i got asked out by this girl that i had a crush on for a while only problem is shes sorta young 17 and i just turned 21 but soo cute like u ever look at a girl and talk to her and be like wow we are ment to be in some way thats her, Now the other girl well my girlfriend is 23 i really want to take this other younger girl out and just see whats shes really like, maybe like a lunch or something low key just two people going out.

    So im thinking what if i end up really likeing this girl how am i going to break it to my girlfriend that i dont want to see her anymore in a nice way, shes very attached to me in a way like she'd be pretty crushed if i broke ties with her all together maybe suicide i dont know lol but id be scared for her. She is also kind of a long distance relationship since she moved back with her family and doesn't go to school up here anymore so i have to travel like a hour and a half to see her or vise versa any advice blades would be helpfull im about to trip on some acid i just got today maybe the answer will come to me when im tripping lol first time tripping alone.
     
  2. sounds like you in a pickle bro. go for the girl at work. if she is sexy bang her out. thats what I would do. I used to work at this grocery store and I would mack on all the cuties.
     
  3. End it with one or the other. Anything else is cruel and selfish.
     
  4. yea ur right sam i just do not know what one i want to continue with and my girl im afraid of breaking up with just because shes so in love with me, and her family thinks im like a godsent to her.
     
  5. if you don't like the relationship your in then end it and start somethin new with this girl.

    but if your current girl makes you happy and in love stay with her man.

    Doesn't take too much thinking.

    BTW, don't trip on lsd alone, you'll highly regret it.
     
  6. shit to late hahahahaha tabs in my mouth
     
  7. BANG HER OUT. lol I tellin you dump the obsessed one.
     
  8. lol i dont know man i just dont know in a sense your right life is to short and i should just plow this little one and show her who's her daddy and enjoy myself.
     
  9. thatta boy. go get her tiger. call her up right now and be like "I am trippin get over here and suck my dick"
     
  10. If this girl is way too attached to you (and this is coming from experience of being the clingy girl, lol) it's gonna be harder on her if you wait. I'd say really think hard about it, and if you really just want to be free to do whatever, break it off now. I mean, it sounds like you're kind of a crutch to your girlfriend anyway, if you're a godsend. Makes it sound like you're saving her from herself and she'd be depressed and crazy without you. That girl needs to work on herself before she gets into a relationship.

    Don't mean to judge, that's just how it seems. :)
     

  11. hahahaha yea righhtt in my dreams i dont even know if she likes drugs yet.
    yea fuel your 100% right on that shit damn i think i am going to go on a date with this other girl a few times and see whats up and make my decision
     
  12. haha she didn't even wait a day to call me she just called and wants to hang out and im about to be in space in my own little world any min now lol great
     
  13. sounds good go chill wit her now.
     
  14. yea fuck it i can handle this ima take her to wawa we'll get subs and ill bring her back to my place and watch a movie or something im so classy lol she seems cool with it though so its good i only took one tab.
     
  15. yea just dont take anymore acid. take her out bring her back to your place and fuck her brains. I wanna hear what happens btw you better report back.
     
  16. word if not tonight tomorrow ill let ya guys know
     
  17. You my friend, have done the impossible.

    I would never attempt to drop acid and go meet up with someone i barely know.
     
  18. I'm probably the last guy you want to take relationship advice from but I hate to break it to ya but relationships aren't like looking for a new car if u get my drift :p People are far more complicated and all require different things. For this one girl, she's co-dependant and clingy like someone else said. Then you have the porsche, the new model, who's fun and energetic and would probably do some kinky shit. But, here's the problem. One may be in it for the thrill, whereas the girl friend is in it for the long haul. For one you must sacrifice the other. Or try and juggle 2 girls if you are in to hurting girls feelings.
     
  19. haha it actually was awsome im still trippin a lot but i dropped her off a while ago she does have school in the morning lol wow im watching drawn together on CC what a fucked up show haha well anyway i didn't get laid but we were making out for quite some time and i dont even think i could think of sex right now or even then was just weird making out but she is a great girl some deep conversation and she didn't lag behind mature for her age but ya it was good guys thats some really good acid though for real but yea i like that girll a lot damn but everything just falls back to what everyones said im being selfish if i let it lead any longer one of them has gots to go and its looking like my 4 month girlfriend but anyway ima enjoy the rest of my trip i have a day off tomorrow
    no im not rereading this im just going to press submit
     
  20. fuck ill respond to this in the afternoon some good points but yea
     

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