Hello I was recently in a hospital for 3+months. When I got out I noticed that people do not react to me the same as they used to. This may sound funny but the biggest thing I noticed is that women are not attracted to me anymore and I used to get A LOT of girls easily and people just don't react to me the same way. I asked everyone if I look different and everyone says no except I gained a little weight ( maybe like 10lb, but I've been much heavier before and not had any serious issues like this.) I showed them old pics of me. I even used dating apps and webcams and people barley click on me/like me. I don't really feel different psychologically either Can anyone help me?
No one can help you, your perception of yourself has been distorted by an experience you assume has changed your appearance which is literally impossible. No one but us knows you were in hospital and going to hospital doesn't all of a sudden stop girls liking you.
You do not understand. I am saying that people do not react to me the same way as before and I can't really understand why. My perception of myself is the same
There was another thread just like yours except the poster had been in jail. You could have written that thread, lol. People just are funny sometimes. Give it some time. Good luck.
Reported, dude is just trolling, for whatever reason, ain't gotta clue but this is the same dude that just got outta prison and had the same story. Same picture as well. Though I can't see it anymore so he probably removed it. Sent from my LM-X420 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
What was your illness if you don't mind me asking. Maybe the type of illness is what's throwing people off.
I was in jail for 2 months then they took me to a mental hospital which I was in for 3 months. I noticed the change after the hospital. I was sleeping all day for like 3 months
Coming off as mentally unstable will certainly send people in the other direction. There, you have your answer.
I'd agree with sweedright. Even if you havent changed one iota people will likely judge you as unstable because of the hospital. It's pretty shitty.