right story is.... my girl was out at a party and i didnt go cos i was megahungover right.. so im talkin to her on msn,and one of her friends some dude called kelly takes over the phone cos shes wasted (like this is all typed ) but anyway this dude kelly tells me shes kissin some chick and im like yeah thats cool, and then he says that shes after kissin a couple of dudes and im like WTF ANYWAY started talkin to my girl later on when shes sobered up a bit and shes like hey all smiles and shit and im like WTF you cheated on me, and she says yeah and shell probably do it again so im like fuck you then ya whore....and she says but it dont count if its with a chick so i explain that some dude told me she met some other dude.....and shes like wtf no id never do that.....and shes not the type to do it either....so we have this fight and it comes out that she didnt kiss any other guys and so i apologize for callin her a whore....but shes sayin shes too hurt after me callin her said whore...so shits all twisted whats a mothafucka to do huh?
man im tryin.....i sat back last night listened to pissed at women songs and blazed some herb but i just keep thinkin bout her =/
haha well you didnt really get cheated on. You believed some drunk dude when he told you she kissed another guy and called your girl a whore before letting her explain herself. really you just dug yourself a pretty deep hole, that being said it wasn't meant to be, just chill with your buddies and party and all that shit and you'll get over her nice a and quick
aight ive just decided that this bitch can just die in a hole lol in the wise words of dre.....bitches aint shit !
I personally wouldn't give her the time of day. Then again, I don't date women who go to parties and make out with other people, surely for attention.
lol? just sayin it seems like this would be an easy fix. and she needs to get over it because being called a whore, especially when ur bf had a reason to think so, isn't that big of a deal.
So it's only cheating if it's a person of the opposite sex? Fuck that shit, cheating is cheating. Keep any kind of intimacy in the relationship or else you open yourself up to a lot of preventable bullshit.
i agree with this but i don't... being a girl, if i made out with another chick at a party, it would be purely random and i wouldn't think its cheating. haha it happens...but then again, if i knew my bf would care i would never do it. most guys i know wouldn't mind heh
yes because i am attracted to guys. im not attracted to girls in that way and making out with one is like...idk drunken games
lol I would say thats cheating, but a girl kissing a girl is not cheating. And this guys girlfriend didnt hook up with a guy some dude just said she was.
It's always fun when people cheat with the same sex, they try to justify it as though it wasn't crossing a line. If they didn't like it, they wouldn't do it. It doesn't matter how 'hammered' I get, I'm not going to do anything that I didn't want to do to some degree while I was sober, and I'd never date someone so impulsive, that they randomly make out with people when they're drunk. But they can maintain enough composure to, what, keep it within their own gender?... that's just a little gross, and likely indicative of some future problems. It seems 'progressive' and 'fun' when you're young, but it's never a good idea to encourage that kind of behavior and pretend you're 'ok' with it, unless you're able to fully accept the rumors, and the lies, whether they are your partners, or from the unfortunate people who have to witness their behavior.
But if you're not attracted to the girl, then why would you make out with her? Seems like bullshit, sorry. It's a retarded double standard. So let me get this straight: My girlfriend can go to a party and make out with 10 girls. She can 3-way kiss with two chicks, and then do a body shot off of another girl's stomach. That's not cheating. But if she kisses a dude. That's cheating. I always thought cheating was hooking up with anyone that isn't your girlfriend/boyfriend. Bingo. I'm also not trying to get some random STD because you couldn't keep your drunken mouth off of some equally drunken chick at a party. If you're kissing someone even though you're not attracted to them, then that's pretty fucking slutty.
lol ur obvi not a girl... guys normally dont get that whole kissing another chick thing. and if a chick does as much as 3 way kisses girls and takes body shots off them...than thats weird cuse if shes straight that wouldn't happen. thats something to worry about