Well I'm a virgin, never really was worried about losing it until now. The first time i tried to lose it (age 15) my penis got "scared" and shriveled up and I couldn't get hard. Then I tried it about 2 months ago after smoking a blunt and the same thing happened I mean I'm 19 why does it do this? It's really embarrassing. Luckily I'm in love with the girl and she loves me so it wasn't a real big issue. I'm going to her house tomorrow and want to actually lose this shit...This is really hard for me to talk about, but most of you don't seem to judgmental or anything like that...Please help me Blades , any advice is greatly appreciated.
Sometimes you just need to overcome shit on your own plain and simple. If you want it you can get it. Or take some Viagra lol. So that atleast you can get used to sexual encounters. It also helps if you're the dominant one leading the situation. Alot of guys get scared simply because their girl seems more confident.
Exactly what I was going to say. If it shivles up have her suck on it for awhile then have sex. If she can't get it up by sucking it, then id be a little scared lol.
This is what all those years jackin off and watchin porn lead up to man. It's your moment bro. At least you found somone worthy of taking it
FACT QFT Rofl Heres a tip, Stop thinking and start lovin. Makeout and think of her not about I hope i can stay hard and buggin out. Think about her sweet body and you should be good
If you can't get it up, don't freak out about it-- that only makes it worse. Just tell your girl too do work with her mouth for a little bit.
Yes...like others said...just have her polish your helmet.. On the bright side, if you have problems getting it up to begin with, maybe you'll last longer than most do their first time
It's just nerves. It's your first time and your with a girl you like so there is lots of pressure to perform. It's very difficult to get hard if your nervous and scared. Try to relax. Get in the right mindset. Don't forget, sexual stimulation is a lot more mental than people realize. Look at your GF and think about how sexy she is. Think about how she WANTS to please you. Don't feel forced to make a move - or hurry things up. Just enjoy each other's company and go with the flow. I'm just assuming your GF has had experience so maybe ask her to take the lead.
Yeah it's just the anxiety of it all. You have been building up to this moment for years now. That can effect your little friend. You just have to try and clear your mind. Which is hard i know. Luckily you are in a relationship with someone who understands. It's not going to be an over night success. But work together and you will be making sweet love in no time Try some booze to calm the nerves and increase your confidence.
First to admit this happened to me for some years... anyways there was this one chick and the problem up and left itself really quickly. I mean this was a problem that happened for like 4 times in a row now like dayummm somthing happen cmon lol but your time will come. mine did and strong ever since then.