3 years ago my dad met "The love of his life" and from the get go the bitch hates me. She was always being rude to me, snooping around, just being a bitch. Well I had been wanting to move out for sometime now as I graduated high school at semester this year. The only problem is I really had nowhere to go, or I didn't really have the balls to move out. I go to my grandparents house one weekend and come back on Sunday; I go to my room and search for my stash when I realize it is missing. I went and asked my dad if he had taken it (yeah he smokes, yet she doesn't care!) and he said no. Well, four days later and my dad's now wife admits that when she was in my room putting clean clothes on my bed she went through all the shit in my room! My dad actually let her do that shit. I am the only kid in the house they would do this shit to. No one else had to even worry about something like this happening. She says that for bringing this in the house she figures that I should be grounded for the weekend, car and insurance taken away, daily room searches, and a weekly drug test. I said fuck the bullshit and packed all my shit up and moved in with my grandparents. My dad and I were so close until this bitch came along and now look. Amazing how one person can totally mess everything up.
something similar happened to me, my parents are divorced and my dad married this girl thats like only 31 (hes 59) and she is the most annoying bitch ever, and she also decided to use my closet at his house as a storage cabinet for all her shit, so i have no place to put any of my stuff
well, what's the reason for disliking you? 9 times out of 10 when new parents come in like that they try to get along with the kid, if only to please the other parent they are dating. and wtf would she punish you for it if she lets him do it?
Whattttttttttttt.... Don't let some hoe steal your stash. Especially if you were there first. Godamn, that's hard earned green.. I'd be pissed! Sad to hear about your family, but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Smoke on mayn..
Dude dont put up with that shit...she is the STEP mom, she has no say. If your father lets you do it then do it. **JaMiO**
But my dad is in love with her, so I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. By moving out I solved everything. It's just kind of scary being out on your own.
props to taking the initiative. most people here would bitch and moan about it while not doing anything. and its only "unsettling" for the first couple months. you'll get used to it and wonder how you ever lived at home.
I am beginning to like it. Being able to pull out the bong and just puff on it with no worries really is nice. But sometimes you can't help but miss your family, ya know?
i was 11 when my mom married a total dickhead. he was ex-military and a total neat freak, and i was a creative, slobby little kid. he an i didn't get along at all - he gave me an 8:00 bedtime (went to 9:00 in middle school!), and would go outside and peek in my window to make sure i wasn't reading with a flashlight. i came out of the bathroom once because i'd forgotten my change of clothes, and found him poking through my closet. i didn't have the option of moving somewhere else, so i ended up joining the civil air patrol and spent like no time at home. then i got a job and worked all the time, then i got an older boyfriend and stayed out all the time. i moved out when i was 18, but it's never been the same between me and my mom. i'm sorry it happened to you=(
Once you get over the fear of being on your own you are going to love it. Whats better then being able to show case your pipes at ypur home with no worries of when step mom from hell is gonna come walking....
sorry to hear that, man. and yeah, you'll miss your fam once in a while. just stay busy and motivated.
yo i would slap that fuckin bitch and tell her whats up she just cant fuckin move into your life and be a bitch thats fucked up man,damn......makes me angry just readin that shit
I would've told her to respect my privacy. She is no parent or guardian of mine and I'm of legal age she has no right whatsoever to give me any orders. Then I would've installed a deadbolt on my bedroom door. Problem solved. I'm sorry it happened to you. Had a similar situation but I was just a kid, nothing I could've done.
if it were me, any money in her purse would become mine after that and if there was no money, i would go on an internet credit card spending spree ith her credit card of course.
You're my hero! LoL, thats awesome. I know the whole thing with your dad sucks, and I hope you two can patch things up, but just walking out like that was so sweet, I've never known anyone to do that. I hope everything works out for ya, if it hasn't already
I still talk to my dad everyday and everything seems to be fine. My grandparents know I smoke here, they just want me to do it before I get in the shower so no one knows. I have back surgery in the next couple months (June 8th) and I am just laying low until then.