We just started dating and only slept together twice (but we've done other stuff). The first time, it took him a really really long time to get hard once we were in my room (we were fooling around the kitchen and while watching tv and stuff and he was hard) So I assumed that it was just him being nervous since it was the first time we would have sex. Although it was really annoying. Like i was just getting frustrated, but i kinda just sucked it up, and once he was good to go everything went well. But then the other night we had sex again, and it took forever again! Like well over an hour. Which I really cant do, I kinda just wanna bang and then thats it. Im not really into like major amounts of foreplay or anything like that. Its nothing that I'm doing, or not doing. He just cant get it up. Solutions? or something... I really dont want this to be like a normal thing where it takes over an hour to have sex and then by the time we actually do it I'm tired and the mood is gone.
you getting frustrated only makes it worse. utilize some patience and eventually he'll be comfortable around you enough to be getting hard anywhere.
I mean i'm frustrated but Im not showing that to him, I'm not like openly saying like "come on get hard already!" I am patient with him. and hes fine getting it up when were just messing around and then once we actually wanna have sex it wont work...
My first few times I found it difficult as fuck to get hard. It was kinda a mental block. But my girl was forgiving and almost tried to make a joke of it to lighten the mood which helped. After awhile it became easy as fuck. And now I'm always ready to beat the pussy up. So dont show signs of frustration. Hell never be able to get hard if you act mad or annoyed.
he said that its never happened before, and i know hes not a virgin and ive never had this problem with anyone else ever, maybe once or twice due to too much booze
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i spent over $100 at victoria's secret the day before we had sex for the first time. most of it was stuff i needed anyway, but i figured some nice stuff for us both to enjoy could come in handy
this, lol....no foreplay tho? that's probably the issue...Ya gota warm him up....er maybe your just doing it all wrong..... I used to date a girl that gave the worst hand jobs, basically just touching the tip of my dick lol...I fixed that tho but felt bad for all the dudes who had to suffer before me, who knows how long she was doin that switch up ur technique
no foreplay? when did i say that? in this situation i'll do whatever i can... its kinda hard to suck a flaccid dick though. and my technique is spot on, i dont mean to sound arrogant or anything but its definitely nothing i'm doing wrong there. and no haha i expected mostly answers like that... im really just trying to get a guys perspective on this, im pretty sure its like a nervous thing but i just wanna find the best way to deal with it/ fix it
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