so i was thinking my plants are like some of my old relationships, not to try and sound all gay or nothing...they remind me of my relationships because they have these imperfections....seems like after awhile you notice those more than the beauty of each one...you try and change/help the girls as best as you can, not that you yourself know anything really to be helping anyone. but you only have so much control over the nature of things....guess all you can do is treat em as best you know how (use your head, not that i ever do....i try) and go along for the ride. ......i love all these plants....i know its silly but they have been my friends for a long time already. i will let you know how they turn out.